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How to Belong (it’s not what you think) | Sebene Selassie
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Discover the profound insights of belonging in our latest episode, where we unravel the enigma of connection with Sebene Selassie, author of You Belong: A Call for Connection. Dive into a conversation filled with self-discovery, love, and a universal sense of belonging:
- A Personal Journey: From feeling like a "big weirdo" in Washington, D.C. to a celebrated teacher and speaker, Selassie's unique story is an invitation to explore our own sense of belonging.
- An Inspiring Revelation: Learn how belonging starts within, and why knowing and connecting with ourselves is the first step to embracing the world.
- Ancient Wisdom & Modern Practices: Unlock the secrets of ancient traditions and contemporary contemplative practices that reconnect us to truths of belonging.
- Healing from Trauma: Explore the methods to unlock trauma from the body, creating space for grace and growth.
This episode isn't just about fitting in; it's about cultivating a deeper sense of connection within ourselves and the world.
You can find Sebene at: Website | Instagram | Episode Transcript
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