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how to be confident: challenge level impossible

Season 4, Ep. 4

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on backhanded compliments, body image, surviving identity crises, social anxiety and public humiliation, schmoozing, parties, and kissing boys. not now sweetie, mummy's second-guessing her entire self-worth over one thing someone said to her 7 years ago. ✷


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