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16. Gift of Grief with Louise Bates

Season 1, Ep. 16

Burying your child is an experience no one wants to have. For Louise Bates, her son Matthew’s aggressive kidney cancer diagnosis and the grief that followed his death has given her a very personal set of insights. Though it deals with a tragic subject, this is not a sad podcast. There is love wisdom and hope in abundance. And how a woman found her voice following the example of her son.

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