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Leading School Mental Health Confidently | A Conversation with George Peterkin

Ep. 128

This conversation with George Peterkin challenges how we think about mental health in schools. George introduces the three pillars framework: prevention, intervention, and postvention. While most schools have the first two fairly well established, postvention (what happens after an intervention) is often neglected. George shares practical examples of what postvention looks like, from simple check-ins to structured return-to-school support, and explains why it matters just as much as the other pillars.

 

George also makes a compelling case for starting any mental health strategy with student voice. Rather than jumping straight into solutions or copying what other schools are doing, he suggests getting feedback from your students, staff, and parents first. We discuss the role of Senior Mental Health Leads, why comparison really is the thief of joy when it comes to school strategy, and how the small things done consistently often have more impact than big, extravagant initiatives. If you're a school leader trying to figure out where to start with wellbeing, this episode gives you a clear roadmap.

 

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Shane Leaning, an organisational coach based in Shanghai, supports school leaders globally. Passionate about empowment, he is the author of the best-selling 'Change Starts Here.' Shane is a leading educational voice in the UK, Asia and around the world.


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