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52. sapphic dating wrapped & etsy witch soulmate reading
58:30||Ep. 52As 2025 comes to a close, we’re unwrapping our sapphic dating lives. Think of it as the ultimate end-of-year recap, but messier. In this episode, we dive into our personal “Dating Unwrapped” stats: the unforgettable highs, the total disasters, awkward first dates, unexpected sparks, and everything in between. From ghosting fails to swoon-worthy moments, we’re sharing what this year really taught us about love, lust, and all the chaos that comes with modern queer dating.And because we can’t resist a little magic, we’re also getting a soulmate reading from an Etsy witch: will it predict our future loves? Or just give us a good laugh? Either way, buckle up for stories, laughs, cringe-worthy confessions, and maybe a sprinkle of hope for 2026.Find us on:- Instagram- Tiktok- Youtube
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51. the L word debrief : loving Bette Porter is a red flag
42:44||Ep. 51This week on giving (un)bothered, we’re deep-diving into The L Word — the iconic, chaotic, ahead-of-its-time series that transformed queer TV history and paved the way for modern LGBTQ+ representation in media. If you’ve ever searched for The L Word analysis, character breakdowns, or why this show still has such a cultural grip, this episode is for you.We get into everything:✨ The L Word characters we relate to most: the personalities and storylines that still hit today🔥 The L Word characters we dislike: the ones who continue to divide fans💖 The best L Word couples and the love stories that live rent-free in our minds🤨 The weirdest dynamics and plotlines, because no show is messier in the best way.🚀 Why the show was so ahead of its time and its lasting influence on queer storytelling.We also touch on the hype around Wicked Part 2, sharing our thoughts and reactions after watching the movie! Find us on:- Instagram- Tiktok- Youtube50. surviving long distance relationships : facetime dates, communication & staying independent
37:37||Ep. 50Long-distance relationships are NOT for the weak and on today’s episode, we’re unpacking everything that keeps a long distance relationship alive… and everything that can ruin it.From FaceTime dates, to over-communicating vs. under-communicating, to figuring out how to stay independent while still being obsessed with your partner. We’re breaking down the real, unfiltered LDR experience.If you're navigating a queer long-distance relationship, thinking about starting one, or deep into those “I miss you” spirals… this episode is your comfort listen. 💕📱✈️find us on: - Instagram- Tiktok- Youtube49. lesbian s*x for dummies: labels in the bedroom (with Katie from Labeless)
01:01:52||Ep. 49We sit down with Katie, founder of queer-owned s*x toy company Labeless, to unpack labels in the bedroom: top, bottom, pillow princess, and everything in between. Plus, our first experiences with women and the awkward truth about visiting a s*x shop for the first time. Find us on: Instagram: @giving.unbotheredTiktok: @giving.unbotheredYoutube: @givingunbothered Find Labeless on: Instagram: @labelessukTiktok: @labelessuk queer podcast, lgbtq podcast, lesbian stories, queer intimacy, queer dating48. truth or drink: sapphic age gaps & getting caught having s*x
36:40||Ep. 48We’re back with another Truth or Drink, and things got way too real. From sapphic fantasies to virginity stories we probably shouldn’t have shared, this one’s pure chaos in the best way. Grab a drink and dive into the mess of queer dating, lesbian love, and our very own red flag behaviour 🌶️Find us on: Instagram: @giving.unbotheredTiktok: @giving.unbotheredYoutube: @givingunbothered#lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #podcasts #relationships #intimacy #datingpodcast #dating #datingandrelationships #wlw #lesbianpodcast #sapphic LGBTQ podcast, queer podcast, dating podcast, lesbian podcast, WLW podcast, queer dating advice, WLW relationship advice, signs a woman is interested in you romantically, why do i keep questioning my sexuality, WLW relationships, queer dating, queer dating mistakes, WLW relationship advice, I kissed a girl, IKAG, jojo siwa, gillian anderson, scream, dating red flags, intimacy, age gap relationships47. gold star lesbians, baby gays & heartbreak advice
42:22||Ep. 47We’re answering your questions about gold star lesbians, baby gays, and queer heartbreak. Real listener confessions, breakup advice, and chaotic first-date stories: unfiltered and very gay. 🌈💔Find us on: Instagram: @giving.unbotheredTiktok: @giving.unbotheredYoutube: @givingunbothered46. lesbian hot takes : why do lesbians sleep with their friends?
25:54||Ep. 46We’re back, season 2 of giving (un)bothered is here! 🎉 And we’re starting off strong with lesbian hot takes: all the unfiltered, spicy opinions you’ve been thinking (but maybe not saying out loud).From controversial takes on queer dating to the unspoken truths about lesbian friendships and community dynamics, we’re laying it all on the table.💌 Don’t forget to subscribe and drop your hottest take in the comments Find us on: Instagram: @giving.unbotheredTiktok: @giving.unbotheredYoutube: @givingunbothered#lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #podcasts #relationships #intimacy #datingpodcast #dating #datingandrelationshipsLGBTQ podcast, queer podcast, dating podcast, lesbian podcast, WLW podcast, queer dating advice, WLW relationship advice, signs a woman is interested in you romantically, why do i keep questioning my sexuality, WLW relationships, queer dating, queer dating mistakes, lesbian situationships, lesbian dating mistakes, lesbian love signals, WLW relationship advice, signs a woman is interested in you romantically