giving (un)bothered

In today’s episode of giving (un)bothered, we sit down with Roxy Bourdillon, award-winning writer, author of What A Girl Wants: A (True) Story of Sexuality and Self-Discovery, and Editor-in-Chief of DIVA Magazine, the leading magazine for LGBTQIA+ women and non-binary people.Roxy has interviewed some huge names including Emma Stone, Rachel Weisz, and the cast of The L Word, co-hosted a podcast alongside Rachel Shelley (aka Helena Peabody), and presented a documentary for Virgin Radio called Butches, Femmes And Dykes Snogging On The Dancefloor: The Incredible True Story Of Lesbian Nightlife.We talk about Roxy's sexuality journey, self-discovery, lesbian history, working in queer media, the impact of representation, her experience leading DIVA Magazine, and what it was like writing her own book. We also dive into LGBTQ+ visibility, dating, identity, and why queer storytelling matters now more than ever.Find us on:- Instagram- Tiktok- YoutubeFind Roxy on: - InstagramFind DIVA magazine on: - Instagram- Tiktok

In Part 2 with 2D2M, we’re getting into the chaos with our signature game “Bothered or Unbothered” and let’s just say… nothing is off limits.We’re talking: • Socks on or OFF during intimacy 👀 • Being the “experiment” in a girl’s sexuality • When she refuses to use toys • The craziest things we’ve been asked in bed 😭 • Feet kinks and our experiences • 2 months in and still not exclusive 🚩 • When she doesn’t like your best friend… yeah, that one’s messyFind 2D2M on: InstagramTiktokYoutube Find us on:InstagramTiktokYoutube

This week on giving (un)bothered, things get very chaotic with Rose & Ellie from 2D2M (Two Dykes Two Mics) 💥And this is only Part 1… 👀Known for their unfiltered takes, they join us for an episode that completely spirals—in the best, most unhinged way possible. And honestly… nothing is off limits.We somehow end up diving into:- s*x tapes - why femmes get more hate in the queer community- dealing with hate comments & being perceived online- what dating looks like when people already “know” you- chaotic, real, way too relatable coming out stories- the struggle of figuring out your sexuality & identity- the drama around IKAG being cancelled- why we desperately need a queer Big Brother immediatelyFind 2D2M on: - Instagram- Tiktok- YoutubeFind us on:- Instagram- Tiktok- Youtube

This week on giving (un)bothered, we’re exposing the real sapphic signs you like her more than a friend — from getting jealous (but pretending you’re chill), to fantasising about her in your dreams.Whether you’re in a queer situationship, catching unexpected feelings for a friend, or deep in your bisexual/lesbian awakening, we’re breaking it all down with chaotic honesty, personal stories, and the kind of call-outs that might just change your perspective.🫶 In this episode:- Clear signs you have a crush on a girl- Sapphic attraction vs friendship explained- How to tell if you like her more than a friendFind us on:- Instagram- Tiktok- Youtube

Season 3 is HERE and we’re starting messy, heated, and unapologetically.In this episode of giving (un)bothered, we spiral over our obsession with Heated Rivalry, unpack the tension, the chemistry, and why we can’t stop thinking about it 👀 Then we turn up the chaos playing Just a “Phase”, the queer card game by Ali Saarela, answering all your burning questions about dating,intimacy, friendships, dirty talk, and everything inbetween.Find us on:- Instagram- Tiktok- Youtube

As 2025 comes to a close, we’re unwrapping our sapphic dating lives. Think of it as the ultimate end-of-year recap, but messier. In this episode, we dive into our personal “Dating Unwrapped” stats: the unforgettable highs, the total disasters, awkward first dates, unexpected sparks, and everything in between. From ghosting fails to swoon-worthy moments, we’re sharing what this year really taught us about love, lust, and all the chaos that comes with modern queer dating.And because we can’t resist a little magic, we’re also getting a soulmate reading from an Etsy witch: will it predict our future loves? Or just give us a good laugh? Either way, buckle up for stories, laughs, cringe-worthy confessions, and maybe a sprinkle of hope for 2026.Find us on:- Instagram- Tiktok- Youtube