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Girls That Startup: You're Not Lacking Motivation, You're Lacking Grit
Season 7, Ep. 62
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Welcome back to Girls That Startup, a weekly series where we spill the tea on how to create a seven-figure side hustle - because no one saves their way to wealth. You’re joined by Sim, a seven-figure business owner, and Maia, an entrepreneur in the making.
This week, Sim shares the key to long-term success in business, entrepreneurship, and investing: GRIT. She dives into why grit, more than intelligence or hard work, sets successful people apart and how determination can outlast talent. Tune in for practical advice and motivation on how to stay resilient, push through challenges, and build the life you’ve always envisioned.
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