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257. How to build positive money habits

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In this replay episode, Tash and Ana welcome Karen Eley, a former financial advisor turned money coach, who helps individuals overcome money blocks and build healthier financial habits. Karen shares her journey from managing investments to diving deep into the psychology of money, helping clients uncover the hidden beliefs that impact their financial decisions.


Karen opens up about her own money story, including unconscious beliefs formed during childhood and how they influenced her financial habits as an adult. She discusses the pivotal moment she discovered these patterns and the transformative steps she took to rewrite her money mindset. The conversation also delves into actionable strategies for identifying and reshaping limiting beliefs around money.


Listeners will gain insights into fostering positive money habits within families and creating financially resilient children. Karen emphasises the importance of open, age-appropriate conversations about money and shares how early financial lessons can pave the way for confidence and success. Tune in to explore the fascinating intersection of psychology and finance!



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Any advice is general and does not consider your financial situation needs, or objectives, so consider whether it’s appropriate for you. You should also consider seeking professional advice before making any financial decision.


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