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We share our preferences in our lifestyles, food, music, tv/movies, books, and socializing, as well as how our they have changed over time and whether they align with our spouses' preferences.


Life lately

Abby's battling the lice that made their way into her home.

Sarah's family is preparing for an egg drop competition.


Reading lately

Abby read the queer, young adult romance Not My Problem by Ciara Smyth.

Sarah read Laura Bates' Men Who Hate Women, which she heard about through an interview with the author on the Offline podcast.


Eating lately

Sarah is enjoying homemade sushi, using this Instant Pot sushi rice recipe.

Abby found a simple and delicious recipe for pork shoulder.


If you’d like to join in the conversation, please leave us a comment, email us at friendlierpodcast@gmail.com, or find us on Instagram @friendlierpodcast. Thanks for listening

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  • Obsessions

    26:22
    ObsessionsWe share what we've been into lately, from camping to curry. Links mentioned:1000 Hours Outside podcast about campingWhere Should We Camp Next? Budget Camping by Stephanie and Jeremy PuglisiLife latelyAbby's family is down to one car after the Volvo's transmission died.Sarah graduated from library school!Reading latelyAbby listened to You Need a Budget by Jesse Meacham and Sarah read the YA historical fiction novel We Are Not Free by Traci Chee.Eating latelySarah is making curry with these curry pastes.Abby was delighted when her favorite vanilla creme donuts were back in stock.If you’d like to join in the conversation, please leave us a comment, email us at friendlierpodcast@gmail.com, or find us on Instagram @friendlierpodcast. Thanks for listening
  • Getting stuff done

    27:38
    We chat about how good we are at getting things done, which tasks are easy for us to start and finish, and whether anything helps us check things off our lists.Life latelySarah (along with all of Bloomington) is prepping for April 8's solar eclipse.Abby got a puppy, Edie.Reading latelySarah highly recommends the YA novel, In the Wild Light by Jeff Zentner (especially the audio version).Abby has been slowly making her way through the first three books of the Her Royal Spyness series by Rhys Bowen.Eating latelyAbby hacked a grocery store cookie cake for Pepper's birthday.Sarah tried out this Pad Thai recipe.If you’d like to join in the conversation, please leave us a comment on our show notes, email us at friendlierpodcast@gmail.com, or find us on Instagram @friendlierpodcast. Thanks for listening!
  • Looking ahead to turning 40

    23:18
    Life latelyAbby is feeling good about their family's summer plans.Sarah's kids are enjoying some winter hobbies.Reading latelyAbby read True Biz by Sara Nović and Sarah read S.K. Ali's young adult novel Saints and Misfits.Looking ahead to turning 40As we enter the last year of our 30s, we look back over the last decade, look ahead to our 40s, and share how we hope to celebrate our milestone birthdays.Eating latelySarah tried two new focaccia recipes but had the most success with this one from Alexandra Cooks.Abby shares about a new Trader Joe's product: garlic asiago cheese dip.If you’d like to join in the conversation, please leave us a comment, email us at friendlierpodcast@gmail.com, or find us on Instagram @friendlierpodcast. Thanks for listening!
  • Religion and spirituality

    40:35
    Life latelySarah is thankful that January is behind us, and night shift is going surprisingly well for Abby.Reading latelySarah read (and loved) The Good Part by Sophie Cousens.Abby listened to Being Heumann: An Unrepentant Memoir of a Disability Rights Activist by Judith Heumann.Religion and spiritualityWe discuss our experiences with religion and spirituality, growing up, today, and how we think about religion and spirituality as parents.Eating latelyAbby ate Torchy's Tacos every day she was in Texas and has no regrets.Make-your-own sushi is a big win at Sarah's house.If you’d like to join in the conversation, please leave us a comment on our show notes, email us at friendlierpodcast@gmail.com, or find us on Instagram @friendlierpodcast. Thanks for listening!
  • New year's intentions, 2024

    29:55
    New year’s intentions, 2024We set our intentions for the year, share our words for the year, and discuss specific goals in various categories.Life LatelyAbby is looking forward to time with family over the holiday (plus Tex-Mex!).Sarah shares to home winds: the headboard Neil made and all the secondhand plants.Reading latelyAbby found a new romance series by Sarah Estep--the Brunch Bros.Sarah read the technology parenting book Growing Up In Public by Devorah Heitner.Eating latelySarah found success with a traditional caramel recipe and Abby enjoyed apple cider caramels made by a friend. We recommend this thermometer that attaches to the pan.If you’d like to join in the conversation, please leave us a comment, email us at friendlierpodcast@gmail.com, or find us on Instagram @friendlierpodcast. Thanks for
  • Reflecting on 2023

    37:53
    We look back on our respective years, talk about how we did with our intention words, and do a lightning round of favorites from 2023.Life latelySarah recommends the Fantastic Fiction website.Abby is leaving the leaves this year.Reading latelySarah read the nonfiction book The Chaos Machine: The Inside Story of How Social Media Rewired Our Minds and Our World by Max Fisher.Abby enjoyed the first two installments of the Wilmot Sisters contemporary romance series by Chloe Liese.Eating latelyAbby is very into Cherry Cordials, the best seasonal Little Debbie.Sarah has significantly upped her bean game.If you’d like to join in the conversation, please leave us a comment on our show notes, email us at friendlierpodcast@gmail.com, or find us on Instagram @friendlierpodcast. Thanks for listening!
  • Our year in books, 2023

    29:19
    Our year in books, 2023We share the highs and lows of our reading year as well as our favorite books in various categories.Life latelyAbby loves her new Pact sweaters.Sarah is cozying up with the Calm Christmas podcast.Reading latelyAbby read the spicy romance novel (set in Bloomington!) How Not to Fall by Emily Foster.Sarah read Michelle Huneven's novel Search.Eating latelySarah made cranberry orange bread and Abby wants you all to know about shrimp toast.If you’d like to join in the conversation, please leave us a comment, email us at friendlierpodcast@gmail.com, or find us on Instagram @friendlierpodcast. Thank you for listening!
  • Our current clutter

    36:17
    We give an update on the state of clutter in our homes and discuss how we think we might manage it better. We'd love your ideas! (And here's the podcast Sarah mentioned: A Slob Comes Clean)Life latelySarah ran a half marathon—yay!Abby built a screen door.Reading latelySarah read the satirical novel Wellness by Nathan Hill.Abby enjoyed the first two mysteries in the Jane Austen-inspired Mr. Darcy and Miss Tilney series by Claudia Gray.Eating latelyAbby tried out a new spinach dip recipe, and it was a hit at her work potluck.Sarah and E made some yummy mint brownies (similar to this recipe, just swap ganache for mini chocolate chips).If you’d like to join in the conversation, please leave us a comment on our show notes, email us at friendlierpodcast@gmail.com, or find us on Instagram @friendlierpodcast. Thanks for listening!
  • Parenting strengths and downfalls

    31:12
    Parenting strengths and weaknessesWe share areas of parenting that come easily to us (and those that don't!), our partners' parenting superpowers, and a recent parenting win.Episode about our everyday superpowersLife latelyAbby shares the sad news that the hospital where she works will be closing Labor and Delivery later this month.The renovation continues at Sarah's house... In this update, concrete stain!Reading latelyAbby read the YA fantasy novel To Shape a Dragon's Breath by Moniquill Blackgoose.Sarah read R.F. Kuang's Yellowface.Eating latelySarah tried two new recipes from the Superfun Times Vegan Holiday Cookbook for Neil's birthday.Abby enjoyed a buffalo chicken dip made by Andrew.If you’d like to join in the conversation, please leave us a comment, email us at friendlierpodcast@gmail.com, or find us on Instagram @friendlierpodcast. Thanks for listening!