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Ep. 17

Should doctors be prescribing orgasm?


My guest in this episode is Dr Elliot Justin. Elliot has a background in emergency medicine, but recently he’s been busy inventing a pretty fancy cock ring. Elliot is really into men’s erectile fitness, because it can tell doctors like him a lot about the patient’s overall health. So the cock ring developed by his company, FirmTech, claims to be comfortable enough to be worn for long periods AND smart enough to collect data on things like blood flow. 


Elliot and I also talked about why doctors are shy about asking patients about their sex lives. Sexual function is correlated with sexual fitness, of course; and both can be powerful indicators of other things like cardiac fitness. 


Oh, and if you’re not a penis owner and don’t play with someone who is, I’d totally understand if you wanna sit this episode out ;)


A transcript of this episode is available on freesex.substack.com


Hosted, produced and edited by Adam Zmith

Music: Translife by Othon

Artwork: photo of Borneo mealworm by @DamasterCarabus / design by Adam Zmith and Rebecka Öberg

Executive Producer: Tash Walker


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