Turn ons and Turn offs
A friend asked us recently for ideas for a date night. We got ourselves quite giddy... and a little bit tingly, as we unleashed our romantic ideas of decorating socks and creating a different city in their living room to travel to. This got us to thinking, what ARE those tingles and why do they happen? Why might we get turned on and why turned off?
We returned to one our favourite psychoanalysts, Esther Perel, for support on how to effectively communicate about arousal with another person, and Fluff themselves dig deeper into our own thoughts about how we can recognise and communicate about our desires with our own selves!
We provide information as recognised by Stonewall regarding Ace identity, the umbrella term “used to describe a variation in levels of romantic and/or sexual attraction, including a lack of attraction.” (Stonewall.org.uk)