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I’ve officially wrapped up my 29th lap around the sun… and spoiler alert: I’m still winging it. In this episode, I reflect on the chaos of adulthood, the lies we were told about having it all figured out by now, and the unexpected lessons I’ve learned along the way. From delusional confidence to red flags I’m actively ignoring, join me for a birthday breakdown full of laughs, honesty, and just the right amount of existential crisis.

In this episode of Finding Our Joy, I explore the complexities of dating in the digital age. From the allure of perfect matches to the pitfalls of ghosting, we examine how technology has transformed modern romance. Portia will discuss what attracts us today, from looks to shared interests, and share humorous insights on evolving dating criteria. We also tackle digital red flags, such as inconsistency and being accused of murder (literally), offering tips to navigate these modern pitfalls. Finally, I share the greatest heartbreak I’ve ever experienced, highlighting the emotional highs and lows of online relationships. Join me for a heartfelt and humorous journey through the world of digital dating, packed with valuable insights and relatable stories.

Portia is back after some extended time off. In today's episode she dives into exploring and unpacking her feelings around her birthday and entering the later stages of her twenties. Let's get deep and explore the common birthday blues we all feel from time to time!

*** TRIGGER WARNING *** Today's episode mentions abuse and sexual assault. If this is triggering for you, please skip today's episode and join us next week for a new episode! We can't wait to be back in your ears soon. On today's episode, we talk all things breaking up without breaking down (not in P's case). Join us as we reflect on our own personal experiences with heartbreak and how we found the silver linings in these experiences, what tools we used to help us heal and move on.

We chat how we are embracing our inner hot messes and how we embrace and overcome obstacles that may impact our own self-love. In this episode, we admit, she's a little messy but we wanted to start the never ending conversation surrounding self-love. Join us as we delve into some incredibly personal moments that shaped our perception of ourselves and how our self-love journeys started. Share your thoughts on our first episode or have any questions for us, direct messaging us on our Instagram account @findingourjoy_podcast!