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898. Fearlessly Failing: Finding Your Dharma

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Righto - We have a Solo ep today! We're talking all things: DHARMA


Ever feel like you’re doing everything "right" on paper, but you still feel strangely disconnected? 🌀 In today’s episode, we are diving deep into the yogic concept of Dharma—your unique cosmic blueprint and life purpose. Spoiler alert: It’s not just a job title. 


Finding your purpose isn't about creating something new from scratch; it’s about remembering who you have always been. Grab a journal, find a quiet space, and use these five deep-diving questions from today's episode to map out your own path:



1. The Focus Check
  • The Question: What do people consistently ask you for help with?
  • The Reflection: We are often blind to our own zone of genius because it feels easy to us. Look at your text messages and your friendships—what is the specific energy or skill the world naturally seeks from you?
2. The Heartbreak Compass
  • The Question: What is a specific problem in the world that moves you to tears or makes your blood boil?
  • The Reflection: Dharma is rarely just fluffy, happy thoughts; it is often born out of a holy frustration. Your purpose is intimately tied to something you feel called to heal, fix, or protect.
3. The Envy Decoder
  • The Question: Whose life or career do you secretly envy, and why?
  • The Reflection: Don't shame yourself for jealousy, just decode and understand it. Envy is actually a map showing you your own unlived potential. Are you jealous of their bank account, or are you actually craving their creative freedom?
4. The Inner Child Clue
  • The Question: Before the world told you who you had to be to survive or pay bills, what did you do for pure joy?
  • The Reflection: Go back to your ten-year-old self. Your younger self knew exactly what your energy was meant for before adult expectations took over. What did you lose track of time doing?
5. The Truth Bomb
  • The Question: If you keep living the exact lifestyle you lived this past week for the next 10 years, what will you regret most?
  • The Reflection: Shakedown your own complacency. Don't let your comfort zone become the graveyard of your potential. What is the thing you will wish you had started today? I'm all about having no regrets, and this question cuts right through to the core.



This Week's Listener Challenge: The 3-Day Static Cleanse:

For the next three days, wake up 15 minutes earlier. Before checking emails or scrolling social media, sit in morning silence with your journal. Clear out everyone else's opinions so you can finally hear your own intuition speak.


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Big Love

Lola x

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