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Fatima Bey The MindShifter - Guesting

Ditch Fear, Find Balance & Shift Your Life: My "Advancing With Amy" Interview

What did you dream of as a child? What makes you righteously angry? In this powerful guest interview on the "Advancing With Amy" podcast, International MindShift Coach Fatima Bey reveals the three foundational questions that unlock your life's true purpose. Learn the difference between just surviving and truly thriving, and how shifting your thinking is the key to lasting success.


To work with Fatima and shift your thinking for your own success, visit her at https://www.fatimabey.com


Chapters:

0:00 - Welcome to Advancing With Amy

1:36 - What it means to be a "Mind Shifter"

5:08 - How Do You Help People Find Their Purpose?

6:40 - Question 1: What Did You Dream of as a Child?

8:54 - Question 2: What Makes You Righteously Angry?

10:32 - Question 3: What Are Your True Gifts & Talents?

21:04 - A Client's Life-Changing Story: The Transformation of Jannah

26:40 - My Own Journey to Self-Worth and Confidence

31:34 - How My Coaching Works for Adults & Grown-Up Teens

37:41 - The Power of Deep Introspection


MindShift Moments

  • Fatima emphasizes the importance of shifting one's thinking for success.
  • She believes that self-worth is crucial for personal growth.
  • Fatima's coaching is tailored to individual needs, avoiding cookie-cutter approaches.
  • She highlights the challenges of working with teens and the need for honest conversations.
  • Mental health encompasses more than just disorders; it includes overall well-being.
  • Fatima shares the transformative story of a young girl named Janaya.
  • She encourages individuals to confront uncomfortable topics for growth.
  • Finding purpose is essential for making meaningful life choices.
  • Fatima's methods focus on helping people live fully, not just exist.
  • Balance is key to achieving success in various aspects of life.


Sound Bites

"We all need some sort of mind shifting."

"I don't do cookie cutter."

"I want to help you live, not just exist."


Featured Host

Amy Taylor — Mental Health Warrior & Neurodivergent Advocate

https://advancingwithamy.buzzsprout.com/2434582/episodes


Original Airdate: 07/11/24

Conversations that shift your thinking so you can shift your future.


👉 One-on-one coaching for clarity and inner growth:

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👉 The MindShifter Audio Blog for deep reflection:

FatimaBey.com/audioblog


👉 MindShift Digital for identity-based business strategy:

FatimaBey.com/mindshift-digital


👉 Media, speaking, and collaborations:

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  • The MindShift of Podcasting: My Lessons from Two Years of Impact with Dave Campbell

    57:49|
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  • Healing a Generation: Why Adults Must Have Real Conversations with Teens | Fatima Bey

    01:00:29|
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    39:53|
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  • Plus Size Bridal & Life Lessons with Fatima Bey on "Big Beautiful Bad Asses"

    32:39|
    In this episode, the host welcomes Fatima Bey, a dual entrepreneur and MindShift Coach, who specializes in designing gowns in the bridal industry, particularly for plus-size women. They discuss the challenges faced by plus-size brides in finding suitable wedding gowns, the evolution of the bridal industry towards inclusivity, and the importance of body positivity and self-love on such a significant day. Fatima shares her experiences and insights on how to empower brides to feel beautiful and confident, regardless of their size. The conversation emphasizes the need for more size-inclusive options in the bridal market and the emotional impact of feeling accepted and valued during the wedding dress shopping experience.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction01:38 The Bridal Industry and Plus Size Challenges09:34 The Evolution of Plus Size Bridal Options17:31 Empowerment and Body Positivity for Brides25:10 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsMindShift MomentsFatima Bey is a dual entrepreneur with a focus on bridal design and mind shift coaching.The bridal industry has historically been unwelcoming to plus-size women.David's Bridal has made significant strides in offering plus-size options.The average female size in America is a size 16 to 18, yet many bridal shops do not cater to this demographic.It's essential for plus-size brides to feel beautiful and confident on their wedding day.Fatima emphasizes the importance of body positivity and self-love for brides.Many women feel pressured to conform to traditional beauty standards, which can affect their self-esteem.Fatima's approach includes mind-shifting during fittings to boost brides' confidence.There are now more size-inclusive bridal boutiques available than ever before.Fatima advocates for anti-human trafficking and incorporates this cause into her business ethos.Sound Bites"I only do in-person appointments.""Your pictures are forever.""I will rip your neck off if you touch my kids."Featured HostKimberlee Plezia — Big Beautiful Bad Asseshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E6o8jxwM3EgThank you for listening.Originally Aired: 10/22/23