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17. celeb culture & parasocial relationships (w/amanda & amber)

In truly the rawest episode yet, Amanda & Amber are talking reality tv, celebrity culture, the DANGER of parasocial relationships, their sister dynamic, and how fangirling has truly helped them heal from childhood. GET INTO IT!


HOSTS: Amanda (@amandalaynemiller) + Amber Miller (@amberlmiller

PATREON: http://patreon.com/fangirlcentral for bonus content

FOLLOW: @fangirl.central on Instagram, TikTok, + YouTube

LINKTREE: http://linktr.ee/fangirlcentral for our short film, live shows, news, + more


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TIMESTAMPS:


00:00 1D could’ve been Nickelodeon kids & Niall was a Justin Bieber fangirl


4:44 the stank bitches we went to school with & healing from it as fangirls


8:12 our audience is so cool


8:52 our CONFESSIONS OF A TEENAGE DRAMA QUEEN screening & fan community


10:45 reclaiming “drama queen” as fangirls


14:46 REALITY TV

  • JERSEY SHORE: an oral history of “the note”
  • toxic cast member dynamics
  • the ethics of being a reality tv fangirl
  • LOVE ISLAND & dating shows need racism sniffers!!!
  • reality tv could be art


29:09 this podcast is healing us as fangirls & sisters

  • growing from sisters to friends
  • what we admire about each other


37:50 fangirling healed Amanda from being scared to be seen as a “nerd” (hidden DOCTOR WHO obsession)

  • the need to be “cool”
  • being a nerd IS cool


44:16 concert season (renaissance, jonas brothers, eras)


46:40 I can only have so many hyperfixations at once 


47:40 I am in recovery from the One Direction fandom


49:24 PARASOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS: A CAUTIONARY TALE ABOUT CELEBRITY CULTURE

  • “We don’t know him! We just know how the art makes us feel!”
  • parasocial relationships make fandom worse
  • beware the cult-like followship of stan culture


1:04:21 THE DAY I DIDN’T MEET ONE DIRECTION - REFLECTION (we’re speaking to ourselves)


1:09:27 confronting the reality of meeting our fav celebs


1:14:09 feeling intense joy from ART


1:23:54 our custom Funko Pops from Pizza Hut #pizzahutpartner


1:25:04 good omens/David Tennant update


1:27:11 COMING SOON: the rise in queer content (GOS2, OFMD, RWRB, etc.)

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