Family conflict resolution - Punjabi

Through this Podcast, Sri Thakur Dalip Singh Ji (Present Namdhari Spiritual Guru) explained the causes of conflicts in the family and also the way to deal with those conflicts. He said that strife is like 'hell' and a family in which people give taunts to each other all the time is no less than hell. If people start obeying each other then conflicts will end automatically.Thakur ji gave his suggestions about human life, he said human should always remember God in life. Human should wear the robe of hard work while trusting in God. No one should be hated, hate destroys spontaneity. Doing so can make life more beautiful.

Through this Podcast, Sri Thakur Dalip Singh Ji (Present Namdhari Spiritual Guru) explained that Guru Sahibaans have inscribed many virtues in Gurbani for all mankind and also taught them to apply those virtues in life: -Ⅰ. Polite talking to all,Ⅱ. To be humble with all,Ⅲ. To apologize.Nivan S Akhar Khavan Gun Jihabaa Maneeaa Manth (Salok Fariduddin Ganjshakar Ji- Guru Granth Sahib – Ang 1384 Page 15)If a human being adopts these three virtues in his life, then he gets the blessings from the Guru. He said that human should set his life goals very wisely so that those goals could be achieved properly. Every human being has both good and evil, one should focus on oneself and focus on the good as well as try to overcome one's shortcomings. There are ups and downs in life, human should face the difficulties firmly.

Through this Podcast, Sri Thakur Dalip Singh Ji (Present Namdhari Spiritual Guru) said that children should always remember the favors done by their parents. Children should always remember that when they were born, they were brought up by their parents and raised on their feet till they grow up, In the same way, it is the duty of the children not to leave any stone unturned to take care of their parents when they are old.

Through this Podcast, Sri Thakur Dalip Singh Ji (Present Namdhari Spiritual Guru) explained that husband and wife should try to avoid any kind of argument or negative talk in front of the family, especially in front of the children. There is hardly a home today that does not have a conflict. If we look at domestic life, there is unrest or conflict in 80% of the houses. He said that if there was any dispute between the husband and wife regarding any kind of dispute then they should resolve the dispute among themselves and not in front of the family members.

Through this Podcast, Sri Thakur Dalip Singh Ji (Present Namdhari Spiritual Guru) explained the many elements of resolving the conflict between family members. He said that a person who believes in Guru with devotion, adopts Guru's teachings in his life, he gets happiness. He further added that it is noteworthy that most of the people today do not recite Gurbani and are busy with worldly affairs due to which they have to face difficulties.He said the cause of the conflict. Such as: -Ⅰ. When one's word is not obeyed, then there is strife.Ⅱ. When something is done against one's will.Ⅲ. For example, knowing that summer is coming, but human-being are not preparing to face that temperature.

Through this Podcast, Sri Thakur Dalip Singh Ji (Present Namdhari Spiritual Guru) explained that we Sikhs get guidance from Guru Ki Gurbani to acquire virtues and get rid of vices and by adopting that guidance we need to become good Gursikhs. There is a long list of virtues. Every human being has different qualities. He also told the man easy ways to become a good person. Such as: -Ⅰ. Chanting the Lord's Name.Ⅱ. A human being should do good deeds.Ⅲ. Human needs to acknowledge that he has vices.Ⅳ. A Human Being should Stop speaking bitter.Ⅴ. Let the human being renounce the vices and accept the virtues in its place.

"Naanak Sukh Paaeiaa Har Keerathan Mittiou Sagal Kalaesaa" (Guru Granth Sahib – Ang 213) This Podcast start by Sri Thakur Dalip Singh Ji (Present Namdhari Spiritual Guru) from Tuk. He said that by chanting the Lord and praising Him, sorrow, pain and grief are removed.He described the various types of services through this video that those who serve their Guru and the Guru's Gursikhs receive the desired object from the Guru. He gave an illustration of the logic of Gurbani and said that “Satguru” is capable of giving everything: - “Sathigur Dhaathaa Sabhanaa Vathhoo Kaa Poorai Bhaag Milaavaniaa” (Guru Granth Sahib – Ang 116)

The members of the household need to know the causes of "tribulation" in the house and need to know the reasons and remove them. Tribulation can also be termed as "disease" which often afflicts the members of the household.The main reason for the tribulation was also told that the members of the house should not speak bitter words among themselves. If, the members of the house will solve this main reason, then the chances of tribulation in the houses will be reduced. Through this Podcast, Sri Thakur Dalip Singh ji (Present Namdhari Spiritual Guru) has told the ways to remove the tribulations of the houses so that the members can live happily.“Mithaa Bolehi Niv Chalehi Saejai Ravai Bhathaar॥”