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Julia Armfield - author of Private Rites and Our Wives Under The Sea: Everything In Conversation
She’s everywhere, she’s so Julia (LITERALLY!)
Join Beth, Ruchira and Oenone in conversation with the bestselling author Julia Armfield as we discuss her new novel Private Rites.
Private Rites follows three sisters navigating queer love and faith at the end of the world. The book follows themes of grief, rituals, and legacy… we loved the book and we had loads to ask Julia about climate anxiety, queer horror and sisterhood.
Is there someone who you really want to hear in converstaion? Let us know on Instagram @everythingiscontentpod - and we'll see what we can do!
You can get your copy of Private Rites here - highly recommended by us here at Everything Is Content Towers!
Explore Julia’s work at https://www.juliaarmfield.co.uk/
Follow Juila on Instagram @JuliaArmfield
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Music: James Richardson
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