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Ep 15. Is it me?? Am I the imposter??

Ep. 15

On this weeks episode we have a bee update, get interrupted and distracted by Bruce and Magnus and explore imposter syndrome in relation to parenting and in general.


Its a struggle so many of us go through but not all of us talk about the feeling of being a fraud and feeling like 'we're going to get found out' I've been getting it a lot recently about this podcast and I've had it on more than one occasion since becoming a step mum and a mum. I did wonder if it can happen in a non-work environment at it turns out it can.


We look at what i is, how it shows up, types of imposter syndrome and some suggestions on how to start combating it and putting it to one side

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