Emotionally Intelligent Parenting with Stephanie Pinto

My husband's first time on the podcast you guys!!Ever wondered what happens when two very different upbringings collide in a parenting moment? In this special episode, I’m thrilled to welcome my husband onto the podcast for the very first time.We dive deep into our journey dealing with a neighborhood influence that wasn’t so positive for our kids and reveal why my husband’s protective instincts kicked in full force. Curious to know how a previously hot-headed, short-tempered guy from a different culture transformed into a calmer, more responsive, emotionally intelligent dad? Join us as we unpack our different perspectives on boundaries, discuss how we balance them as a team, and share our approach to navigating this tricky situation. Tune in to hear how our family has grown stronger together as a team because of emotional intelligence.Steph.***Have you joined my Facebook Group for parents? There are over 125,000 parents in the community! 🎉➡️ www.facebook.com/groups/letsraiseemotionallyintelligentkidsHi! I am an Emotional Intelligence best-selling author, award-winning coach and international speaker. I'm also a paediatric anxiety therapist (and previous speech language pathologist!) and I love helping people use emotional intelligence to become calmer, more connected and live happier lives!Book a consult with me to discuss coaching, support, collaborations or speaking engagements.💡 Head to www.stephaniepinto.comOr stalk me on the socials...Insta: www.instagram.com/emotionally.intelligent.parentFB: fb.com/stephpinto

In this episode of the Emotionally Intelligent Parenting Podcast, I’m sharing a personal story from my own home - a REALLY challenging situation with my kids and a new “friend” in our neighbourhood who hasn’t been the best influence.It started out innocently but went from dishonesty and aggressive behaviour to stealing... eek! So we recently faced some difficult moments as a family and had to figure out how to respond with both compassion and clear boundaries... not easy but necessary.I’ll take you through how we approached the situation without resorting to punishment or blame, all while keeping the connection with our kids intact.I know you’ll find it valuable to hear how you can guide your children through tough friendships, help them understand right from wrong, and build their emotional intelligence in the process.If you’ve ever struggled with your child’s behaviour being influenced by others, this episode is for you. Let’s turn these moments into powerful teaching opportunities.***If this resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you. Email us at hello@stephaniepinto.com and send me your thoughts, feedback or questions!Have you joined my Facebook Group for parents? There are over 120,000 parents in the community! 🎉➡️ www.facebook.com/groups/letsraiseemotionallyintelligentkidsHi! I am an Emotional Intelligence best-selling author, award-winning coach and international speaker. I'm also a paediatric anxiety therapist (and previous speech language pathologist!) and I love helping people use emotional intelligence to become calmer, more connected and live happier lives!Book a consult with me to discuss coaching, support, collaborations or speaking engagements.💡 Head to www.stephaniepinto.comOr stalk me on the socials...Insta: www.instagram.com/emotionally.intelligent.parentFB: fb.com/stephpinto

In this solo episode, I’m talking about Kids and Big Emotions: How to Dial Up Your Emotional Intelligence and Respond Calmly.Here’s the thing—before we can help our kids manage their emotions, we have to accept that they HAVE emotions. Emotions that are normal. Healthy. Natural. Supposed to be.Remember when your child was learning to walk, read, or ride a bike? Did you step in and do it for them, rush them, or get annoyed when they didn’t get it right away? Or did you give them time, stay patient, and let them figure it out?!It’s the same with emotions! Kids need to feel their way through them in order to learn how to handle them. But we often jump in too quickly because it’s uncomfortable or inconvenient to let them ride the emotional wave. The truth is, when we allow them to go through those messy feelings, we’re giving them the tools for self-regulation.I'll tell you the one thing you can do that will completely shift how you handle things the next time your child is crying, stomping, or having a meltdown.I’ll also be sharing a viral quote of mine that really hit home for so many parents. Ready to approach those big emotions with more calm and confidence? Let’s get into it!***If this resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you. Email us at hello@stephaniepinto.com and send me your thoughts, feedback or questions!Have you joined my Facebook Group for parents? There are over 125,000 parents in the community! 🎉➡️ www.facebook.com/groups/letsraiseemotionallyintelligentkidsHi! I am an Emotional Intelligence best-selling author, award-winning coach and international speaker. I'm also a paediatric anxiety therapist (and previous speech language pathologist!) and I love helping people use emotional intelligence to become calmer, more connected and live happier lives!Book a consult with me to discuss coaching, support, collaborations or speaking engagements.💡 Head to www.stephaniepinto.comOr stalk me on the socials...Insta: www.instagram.com/emotionally.intelligent.parentFB: fb.com/stephpinto

Talking to our kids about sex and sexuality can feel really uncomfortable, but it’s a conversation we need to have (especially in this age of the INTERNET). Eek.In this episode of the Emotionally Intelligent Parenting Podcast, I’m joined by Vanessa Hamilton, a sexuality educator with over 25 years of experience and founder of Talking the Talk Sexuality Education. We dive into all the tricky topics—when to start the conversation, how much to share, how to explain consent and boundaries, and even how to approach tough subjects like pornography.We’ll also talk about gender differences, teaching kids the correct terminology (which can often feel confusing!), and what to say when your child doesn't want to talk because it feels awkward. Vanessa has some fantastic, practical tips that will help make these conversations feel more natural and comfortable, no matter where you're starting from. If you've been avoiding 'The Talk,' this episode will give you the confidence and tools to get started. You won’t want to miss this one!Find Vanessa's Books:Talking Sex A Conversation Guide For Parentshttps://ambapress.com.au/products/talking-sexKit and Arlo Find a Way Teaching Consent to 8 - 12-year-oldshttps://shop.acer.org/kit-and-arlo-find-a-way.htmlVirtual Classroom Education for Schools:https://www.talkingthetalksexed.com.au/talking-the-talk-virtual-classroomFind Vanessa on the socials:https://www.facebook.com/talkingthetalkeducationhttps://www.instagram.com/talkingthetalk/https://www.linkedin.com/in/vanessa-hamilton-943495102/***If this resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you. Email us at hello@stephaniepinto.com and send me your thoughts, feedback or questions!Have you joined my Facebook Group for parents? There are over 125,000 parents in the community! 🎉➡️ www.facebook.com/groups/letsraiseemotionallyintelligentkidsHi! I am an Emotional Intelligence best-selling author, award-winning coach and international speaker. I'm also a paediatric anxiety therapist (and previous speech language pathologist!) and I love helping people use emotional intelligence to become calmer, more connected and live happier lives!Book a consult with me to discuss coaching, support, collaborations or speaking engagements.💡 Head to www.stephaniepinto.comOr stalk me on the socials...Insta: www.instagram.com/emotionally.intelligent.parentFB: fb.com/stephpinto

What would you do if your child accidentally damaged something precious to you?In this solo episode of the Emotionally Intelligent Parenting podcast, I share a recent incident where one of my kids messed up big time - and my unexpected response. Spoiler: there was no yelling, arguing or punishment.I reveal how I turned this moment into an opportunity for teaching life-long skills like honesty, responsibility, and making amends, all without shame or embarrassment. If you’re curious about how to handle these situations in a way that fosters connection and emotional intelligence, this episode is for you. Ready to discover a new approach to parenting? Tune in to find out!***If this resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you. Email us at hello@stephaniepinto.com and send me your thoughts, feedback or questions!Have you joined my Facebook Group for parents? There are over 120,000 parents in the community! 🎉➡️ www.facebook.com/groups/letsraiseemotionallyintelligentkidsHi! I am an Emotional Intelligence best-selling author, award-winning coach and international speaker. I'm also a paediatric anxiety therapist (and previous speech language pathologist!) and I love helping people use emotional intelligence to become calmer, more connected and live happier lives!Book a consult with me to discuss coaching, support, collaborations or speaking engagements.💡 Head to www.stephaniepinto.comOr stalk me on the socials...Insta: www.instagram.com/emotionally.intelligent.parentFB: fb.com/stephpinto

In this episode, I sit down with Sarah and Kyle from The Art of Raising Humans to dive into one of the biggest challenges parents face - being on the same page with your partner.Do you and your partner ever disagree about how to handle situations with the kids? Ever feel undermined or unsure how to stay aligned?We explore real solutions to these struggles and share practical steps to create a more united parenting front.From understanding each other's differences to scheduling regular check-ins, this conversation is packed with insights that will help you and your partner parent together with confidence and harmony.Don’t miss this one... even if you know your partner will never listen to this episode - it will give you great tools and insights for your own parenting.Find The Art of Raising Humans Podcast, and the hosts Sarah and Kyle at:The Art of Raising Humans Podcast Link - The Art of Raising Humans Podcast | Parenting LegacyFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/artofraisinghumansInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/artofraisinghumansTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@artofraisinghumans ***If this resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you. Email us at hello@stephaniepinto.com and send me your thoughts, feedback or questions!Have you joined my Facebook Group for parents? There are over 125,000 parents in the community! 🎉➡️ www.facebook.com/groups/letsraiseemotionallyintelligentkidsHi! I am an Emotional Intelligence best-selling author, award-winning coach and international speaker. I'm also a paediatric anxiety therapist (and previous speech language pathologist!) and I love helping people use emotional intelligence to become calmer, more connected and live happier lives!Book a consult with me to discuss coaching, support, collaborations or speaking engagements.💡 Head to www.stephaniepinto.comOr stalk me on the socials...Insta: www.instagram.com/emotionally.intelligent.parentFB: fb.com/stephpinto

In this fascinating episode, join me and ADHD expert Rebecca Challoner for a conversation packed with eye-opening insights into neurodivergence, big emotions and particularly ADHD. Rebecca reveals why teaching kids “not to hit” doesn’t work - and what truly does. She also sheds light on Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, explaining how parents can support their kids who experience this.From managing defiance and demand avoidance to School Can’t (aka school refusal), this episode is full of practical, game-changing strategies.Even if your child is not neurodivergent, these tips are a must-hear for raising emotionally resilient, confident, and kind kids. Don’t miss it!Rebecca's "ADHD and Defiance Masterclass” is on 24 September online, secure your spot at:https://www.myspiritedchild.com/adhd-and-defiance-online/ Find more about her work at www.myspiritedchild.com and follow her on all the socials, under Rebecca Challoner and My Spirited Child.***If this resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you. Email us at hello@stephaniepinto.com and send me your thoughts, feedback or questions!Have you joined my Facebook Group for parents? There are over 120,000 parents in the community! 🎉➡️ www.facebook.com/groups/letsraiseemotionallyintelligentkidsHi! I am an Emotional Intelligence best-selling author, award-winning coach and international speaker. I'm also a paediatric anxiety therapist (and previous speech language pathologist!) and I love helping people use emotional intelligence to become calmer, more connected and live happier lives!Book a consult with me to discuss coaching, support, collaborations or speaking engagements.💡 Head to www.stephaniepinto.comOr stalk me on the socials...Insta: www.instagram.com/emotionally.intelligent.parentFB: fb.com/stephpinto 

Get ready! Today we sit down with Eli Harwood, the brilliant mind (and heart) behind Instagram’s hugely popular Attachment Nerd account.Ever wondered if you are doing this parenting thing right? If you're too soft or permissive, too harsh and controlling, or doing okay? Even I swing between these like a pendulum sometimes!Eli and I break down the different attachment styles and discuss how they show up in both children and adults.She helps clear up common misconceptions about attachment theory and shares how emotional intelligence plays a crucial role in fostering secure attachments.I love that we tackled the challenges of setting boundaries around technology and screen time. And here's some good news: parents don't have to be perfectly attuned to their kids 100% of the time.This episode is packed with comforting truths and practical tips to help you raise emotionally resilient, confident, and kind children.Eli's book, Raising A Securely Attached Child is out this week! (Tues 3 Sept 2024). Find it here:https://attachmentnerd.com/https://www.instagram.com/attachmentnerd/https://www.facebook.com/attachmentnerd/https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentnerd/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWUY-2dpPEbeetSUhT2q-7Q🌟My Empowering Your Anxious Child Masterclass is on 16 Sept (US) or 17 Sept (Aus) and we have a 50% discount for early birds only! Grab your spot here:https://stephaniepinto.mykajabi.com/offers/T8g8HvB8***If this resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you. Email us at hello@stephaniepinto.com and send me your thoughts, feedback or questions!Have you joined my Facebook Group for parents? There are over 120,000 parents in the community! 🎉➡️ www.facebook.com/groups/letsraiseemotionallyintelligentkidsHi! I am an Emotional Intelligence best-selling author, award-winning coach and international speaker. I'm also a paediatric anxiety therapist (and previous speech language pathologist!) and I love helping people use emotional intelligence to become calmer, more connected and live happier lives!Book a consult with me to discuss coaching, support, collaborations or speaking engagements.💡 Head to www.stephaniepinto.comOr stalk me on the socials...Insta: www.instagram.com/emotionally.intelligent.parentFB: fb.com/stephpinto