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Jules Von Hep | How to Avoid Toxic People

Ep. 24

Jules von Hep (@julesvonhep) is one of the beauty world's best known tanners, is the co-host of the brilliant podcast The Jules and Sarah Show and also has a must-see YouTube channel. In this episode of the podcast we talk about his role as Global Tanning Director of Tan Luxehow he's become the go-to tanner for A-listers and celebrities and why he set himself a goal of making people feel better. 

Jules with his podcast co-host Sarah Powell

 

 

 

We chat about going after what you want, while staying above board and he talks about why he's a huge believer in hope, fate and chance. If you're starting a business or have a dream that you want to pursue then Jules' rules for setting and achieving your goals are most definitely worth listening to. We talk about the value of taking time out for yourself, why he doesn't have any regrets about focusing on his work. 

 

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These are the leopard print courts from Dorothy Perkins that you've been asking about over on Instagram. Click the pic to go to the Dorothy Perkins website. xx

In the introduction this week I talk about the events that I've been to and the products I've been using including meeting Victoria Beckham to talk about her forthcoming second makeup collection with Estee Lauder. I tell stories from inside the Dolce & Gabbana launch for their new fragrance Light Blue, including chatting to David Gandy and taking 'his lemons' home in the goody-bag. I've been watching, among other things, Strike a Pose on Netflix, the documentary that reunites us with the dancers from Madonna's 1990 Blonde Ambition tour. You've been asking about my visit to Atelier Cologne and the fragrances I chose in the store, so I share a little more information about that visit. Finally I wanted to draw attention to Charli Cohen and an issue she's been having - if you want to follow and retweet her pinned tweet you can do so here >> Charli Cohen on Twitter. 

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