Dykelemmas

Join us this week for a little mid-season interlude! On this episode, we're back with some quick-fire questions. Listen as we talk: Cheating, D!irty Talk, Our Ideal P0rn0 and MORE!Links for this episode:https://www.negaytiationtime.com/product-page/negaytiation-time-lesbian-edition

If you're in the lesbian or sapphic world, there is one cold hard fact we all know; Sapphic heartbreak sucks! But is it really any worse than heartbreak for other sexualities? Why does it hurt so much? How can we overcome it and see heartbreak as an opportunity for growth?Links:Do lesbian breakups hit harder? https://www.refinery29.com/en-gb/2021/12/10788135/lesbian-queer-releationship-breakupSame-sex divorce statistics: https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/birthsdeathsandmarriages/divorce/bulletins/divorcesinenglandandwales/2020

Happy Pride Month everyone! To close off this years pride month, Lucy and Juliet are discussing the intricacies of Rainbow Washing and what it can mean for our community. Whilst some members of the community are happy to see the rainbow flag flying high above businesses, others believe it is a shameful display or capitalising on our lives. There is a lot to cover this week, so get yourself strapped in and lets get going!Links:What is rainbow-washing? https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/a43713768/rainbow-washing/Primark proud Families campaign:https://www.primark.com/en-us/a/inspiration/special-occasions/celebrating-found-families Disney pride: https://disneyparks.disney.go.com/blog/2022/05/share-your-pride/ Gay inclusive companies: https://www.ig.com/uk/trading-strategies/top-10-lgbtq--friendly-companies-220623 Parades, no public posts: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/jun/07/pride-month-boycotts-target-bud-light-brands-companiesArticle about H&M and Levi https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-44500638Stonewall article about China https://www.stonewall.org.uk/system/files/china_global_workplace_briefing_2018.pdfIf you'd like to send in your own Dykey-Dilemma then head on over to our anonymous google docs form: https://forms.gle/NmL51nhFUJpbijsp9Email: dykelemmas@gmail.comInsta: @dykelemmasTikTok: @dykelemmas

Hi Gays! Happy Pride Month. It's our favourite time of year and it should be yours too! This week we are reminiscing on our previous Pride experiences, discussing our dream prides and offering up some advise if you are thinking of attending your first pride! LinksRoman Manfredi photography artist who created we/us, find them on Instagram at @butchfemmelove@pixiepeaches on instagram for the best burlesque performer in London https://www.thetimes.co.uk/travel/inspiration/best-places-to-celebrate-pride-around-the-world https://www.wehopride.com https://csd-berlin.de/en/programm/dyke-march-berlin-2 https://membersdykesonbikeslondon.wordpress.com/london-pride-2019/ https://www.manchesterpride.com/events https://prideinlondon.org/event/lgbtqia-women-and-non-binary-stage-2qqkVYzLS6MebTgxWMm1t2/ If you'd like to send in your own Dykey-Dilemma then head on over to our anonymous google docs form: https://forms.gle/NmL51nhFUJpbijsp9Email: dykelemmas@gmail.comInsta: @dykelemmasTikTok: @dykelemmas

Join Juliet and Lucy this week as they dive into their very first Dykey-Dilemma! This week we hope to explore one listener's query of whether the label of Lesbian is inclusive of non binary genders. Listen as we explore alternative labels such as Gynesexual (It's not what you think) and our personal journeys of using this label.Links for the episode:Article about Non-Binary Lesbians - https://radiantbutch.medium.com/non-binary-lesbians-have-always-existed-7db6b9e7e646Article about Gynesexuality - https://taimi.com/wiki/gynesexual-what-is-it-what-does-it-meanAnother article about Gynesexuality (regarding TERF usage)If you'd like to send in your own Dykey-Dilemma then head on over to our anonymous google docs form: https://forms.gle/NmL51nhFUJpbijsp9Email: dykelemmas@gmail.comInsta: @dykelemmasTikTok: @dykelemmas

The girls drive into the topic of why us Lezzas have such an urge to remain friends with past flings and Ex’s. Lucy and Juliet consider whether this is an accurate stereotype of Lesbians, discuss their own Ex friendship stories, as well as why it might be a good or poor choice to keep your ex in your life. Can it ever work? Let’s find out. Links Mentioned:Lesbian Discussion Group Insta - https://instagram.com/lesbiandiscussiongroup?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==Men Who Hate Women by Laura Bates - https://www.waterstones.com/book/men-who-hate-women/laura-bates/9781398504653Channel 4 documentary ' The Secret World of Incels: UNTOLD' - Channel 4https://www.channel4.com › the-se...The Secret World of Incels: UNTOLDLGBTQ+ more likely to be friends with exes article - https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/inclusive-insight/202109/are-lgbtq-people-more-likely-stay-friends-their-exesResearch about dark personality traits and being friends with an ex - https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886916302690Article about the queer stereotype of staying friends with exes - https://saltyworld.net/not-all-lesbians-stay-friends-with-their-exes-and-thats-ok/Butch Please Insta - https://instagram.com/butchpleaselondon?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==Article about the reasons for why some people stay friends with their Ex's: https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/pere.12197If you'd like to send in your own Dykey-Dilemma then head on over to our anonymous google docs form: https://forms.gle/NmL51nhFUJpbijsp9Email: dykelemmas@gmail.comInsta: @dykelemmasTikTok: @dykelemmas

Who you gunna call? Lesbo myth busters! The girls talk about some of the misconceptions about femme lesbians they learnt from some of their masc, stud and butch friends.Links Mentioned: Regional Theatre Young Director Scheme: https://www.rtyds.co.ukIn at the deep end by Kate Davies: https://www.waterstones.com/book/in-at-the-deep-end/kate-davies/9780008311384If you'd like to send in your own Dykey-Dilemma then head on over to our anonymous google docs form: https://forms.gle/NmL51nhFUJpbijsp9Email: dykelemmas@gmail.comInsta: @dykelemmasTikTok: @dykelemmas

Your favourite London Lezzas are back! Join Juliet and Lucy this week as they discuss whether its possible to make meaningful connections online as a Lesbian. The girls discuss joining dating apps before even being out, confronting cis men on Lesbian dating apps, unicorn hunters and some of their most interesting matches on the apps. Links mentioned:The Vaults Festival https://vaultfestival.comDating app fatigue article https://www.gq-magazine.co.uk/lifestyle/article/dating-app-fatigueTinder Article https://www.nbcnews.com/think/opinion/looking-love-tinder-lesbians-must-first-swipe-past-parade-straight-ncna1047721Her https://weareher.comHinge https://hinge.co/en-gbBumble https://bumble.com/en/Tinder https://tinder.com/en-GBIf you'd like to send in your own Dykey-Dilemma then head on over to our anonymous google docs form: https://forms.gle/NmL51nhFUJpbijsp9Email: dykelemmas@gmail.comInsta: @dykelemmasTikTok: @dykelemmas