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UK's Oldest Dominatrix

Season 2, Ep. 1

Thank you so much for joining me for my brand spanking new podcast – with Mon. The series where we chat with some of the most extraordinary humans on the planet, and  explore fascinating topics!


Today I am SO excited to share with you this interview with an absolute Goddess! Her name is Sherry Lever – AKA Mistress Sofia – and she is the UK’s Oldest Dominatrix. This was such a wonderful conversation, Sherry was so warm and generous with her time and what she shared.


I absolutely loved this chat, and I hope you do too.


Sherry Lever, AKA Mistress Sofia's contact information


WEBSITE: https://www.mistress-sofia.co.uk

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/sherry_lever_ or @sherry_lever_

X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/sherrylever or @sherrylever

TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@sherrylever

Buy her books HERE: From "Mrs" to Dominatrix - https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/44416620

Channel 4 documentary: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k4mfzYovLk0

TRULY episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EQf5zoJZG4s


And if you'd like to get in touch - feel free to send in any ideas for future episodes - or just say G'Day!



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