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'Tis the Season: Holiday Movies, Navigating the Season with OCD, Visiting the Winchester Mystery House
On this holiday episode of Drinking Tea with Monsters—the cozy-spooky podcast about OCD, anxiety, and other, less scary monsters—we’re diving into everything festive, comforting, and a little eerie.
We kick things off with the movies getting us into the holiday spirit. From unexpected Christmas classics like The Godfather to new favorites like Christmas Karma, we share what we’re watching this season and why these films always hit the spot. If you love discovering holiday movies, nostalgic comfort films, or quirky recommendations, you’re in the right place.
Then we get real about what it’s like to navigate OCD during the holiday season. We unpack common triggers, why this time of year can feel especially overwhelming, and practical strategies to help you find joy, grounding, and peace amid the chaos. If you’re looking for mental-health support, coping tools, or solidarity, come build your holiday toolkit with us.
Leela closes the episode with a chilling but comforting tale: the Winchester Mystery House. With its endless construction, staircases to nowhere, secret rooms, and haunted history, it’s the perfect spooky story for a winter night.
So grab yourself a holiday beverage, a seasonal drink, a comforting concoction, and join us for Drinking Tea with Monsters.
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The Merchants of Joy (Amazon Prime)
Godfather (available to watch for free on Pluto, Tubi ; with subscription on Paramount+, Hulu, and Roku)
Goodfellas (available to rent)
A Bronx Tale (available with subscription on Amazon Prime, Roku, YouTube, AMC+)
Christmas karma trailer
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24. Even Disneyland isn't Disneyland: Traveling with OCD, The Cozy Winter Hibernation List of Things to Read/Watch/Listen To, and The Bells of the Frozen Post Office
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22. Hallmark Christmas Movie Quiz, No News is Good News, and the Annual Christmas Haunting of Raynham Hall
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21. Emo Christmas, understanding anxiety vs. anxious OCD, and the dramatic ghosts of the Drury Lane Theater
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20. Holiday fights, pies, and aliens, A deep dive into OCD subtypes, and the Macys employees that never leave
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19. The curious relationship between Britney Spears and George W. Bush, OCD subtypes, and the productive ghosts of Eureka Springs
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17. Single People Portions, Magical Thinking OCD Explained, and The Mystery of Gadsby’s Tavern
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