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Drinking Tea with Monsters

The curious relationship between Britney Spears and George W. Bush, OCD subtypes, and the productive ghosts of Eureka Springs

Ep. 19

This week on Drinking Tea with Monsters, the podcast about OCD and other, less scary monster, we kick off the episode by hearing about the canoodling of Britney Spears and Karl Rove. What? And how did that lead to a relationship between Britney Spears and George W. Bush? Grab your tea and get comfy 'cuz it’s a whole journey!


Next, we sit down with Mary Rogers Kirby of Creating Solutions. Mary Rogers is a Licensed Professional Counselor specializing in anxiety, OCD, and trauma. Mary Rogers takes us on a deep dive into OCD subtypes, everything from the well-known varieties like contamination fears and checking, to lesser-known themes like relationship OCD and religious scrupulosity.


Then Pri whisks us off to Arkansas for a spirited visit to the famously haunted Crescent Hotel in Eureka Springs, where the ghosts are surprisingly productive but they still know how to have a good time.


So pour yourself something warm, get comfortable, and join us for another delightfully chill episode of Drinking Tea with Monsters.


I'm, like, totally obsessed with...

Happy Birthday Britney Spears!


OCD

Mary Rogers Kirby (Psychology Today)

Creating Solutions


DTWM

Crescent Moon Hotel, Eureka Springs


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