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Closing Doors
Season 6, Ep. 42
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Sometimes we spend so much time asking for new doors to open…
that we forget some doors have to close first.
And sometimes closing doors feels like loss.
Like disappointment.
Like endings we didn’t plan for.
Like walking away from something familiar before we know what comes next.
But maybe some doors close because life is trying to move us forward.
In this reflective episode of Dr. Davina’s Dots, we quietly explore the uncomfortable but necessary experience of closing doors.
The relationships we outgrow.
The habits we can’t carry anymore.
The versions of ourselves we slowly begin to release.
Because sometimes what’s next cannot enter our life until something else leaves it first.
This isn’t about rushing change or pretending endings don’t hurt.
It’s about reflecting on how closed doors often create space for new beginnings.
So if you’ve been standing in front of a door that no longer feels right…
or grieving something that once felt important…
Take a breath.
Slow down for a moment.
And come reflect with me and lets connect the dots together.
This episode musical selections include:
Greg Chambers – “Baja Breeze
Michael Kitanda – “Sweet Nothings
Patrick Bradley – “Song of May”
Adam Hawley – “One Moment
Brian Simpson – “Sky Watcher”
Atmospheric, slow, spacious
Nathan Mitchell – “Sweet Seduction
Nicholas Cole – “Dreams
Ryan Montano – “Soulfully”
Jackiem Joyner – “When we
James PJ Spraggins -Pure Logic
Elan Trotman -Cool Runnin
Vanell Andrew X The Colleagues – Euphoria
Charles A. Kelly -Focus on Purpose
If today’s reflection resonated with you, you’ll find similar calming thoughts throughout my books, created to offer gentle perspective, emotional clarity, and meaningful encouragement for everyday life and leadership.
My books are designed to help you slow down, reflect deeply, and reconnect with what truly matters, whether you’re navigating personal growth, professional demands, or simply seeking a quieter mind in a busy world.
You can explore my full collection of books, reflections, and creative experiences at www.drdavinasdots.com
Until next time
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