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How To Break the Grip of Shame | Ben Larke DEEP DIVE

In this special deep dive episode of Don't Let The Old Man In, clinical psychologist Ben Larke joins Pod O’Sullivan to unpack shame (versus guilt), as well as the mindset to remain competent through struggle.

If you’re a man navigating midlife and wanting real talk, practical wisdom, and a community that gets it, you’ll find this one hits home.


Listen, learn, take something with you, and keep moving forward.


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    What’s still possible in the second half of life? And who gets to decide the limits, is it your body, your age, or the stories you tell yourself?In this episode of Don’t Let the Old Man In, we sit down with Ross Youngman, a man who quietly dismantles many of the assumptions we hold about aging, ambition and reinvention. At an age when many people are thinking about slowing down, Ross chose to lean in and challenge himself physically, intellectually and purposefully.In this episode, we explore:Why marathon swimming is 75% psychological and only 25% physicalHow social connection, not willpower, sustains long-term fitnessThe power of starting small and building confidence through graduated challengesWhat swimming taught Ross about focus, endurance and staying in the water when it gets uncomfortableHis transition from a high-pressure global finance career into purpose-driven philanthropyWhy he returned to university in midlife to study coaching psychologyHow optimism can be a conscious, disciplined practice — not blind positivityWhat it really means to “not let the old man in”Along the way, Ross shares hard-earned insights about parenting, timing, patience and resisting the internal voices that quietly talk us out of possibility.
  • How To Live To 100 | Prof Virginia Cha DEEP DIVE

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    In this special deep dive episode of Don't Let The Old Man In, Professor Virginia Cha joins Pod O’Sullivan to unpack Singapore's new "blue zone" status and the benefits of growing old. If you’re a man navigating midlife and wanting real talk, practical wisdom, and a community that gets it, you’ll find this one hits home.Watch, learn, take something with you, and keep moving forward.
  • How To Die Well | Dr Merran Cooper DEEP DIVE

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    In this special deep dive episode of Don't Let The Old Man In, Dr Merran Cooper joins Pod O'Sullivan to shed light on what it means to suffer loss at a young age, the power of advanced care planning and how families can navigate end-of-life decisions.Perfect for the busy holiday season when time is short but the need for reflection runs deep.If you’re a man navigating midlife and wanting real talk, practical wisdom, and a community that gets it, you’ll find this one hits home.
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    In this special deep dive episode of Don't Let The Old Man In, Dr Gordon Spence joins Pod O’Sullivan to unpack midlife transitions, fitness and good habits.If you’re a man navigating midlife and wanting real talk, practical wisdom, and a community that gets it, you’ll find this one hits home.Watch, learn, take something with you, and keep moving forward.
  • What You Need To Know About Ozempic | Dr Angela Kwong DEEP DIVE

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    In this special deep dive episode of Don't Let The Old Man In, Dr Angela Kwong joins Pod O’Sullivan to unpack GLP-1s, also known as fat jabs. If you’re a man navigating midlife and wanting real talk, practical wisdom, and a community that gets it, you’ll find this one hits home.Watch, learn, take something with you, and keep moving forward.
  • The Book That Doctors Prescribe | Stuart O'Neill DEEP DIVE

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    Note: this episode contains discussion of depression and suicide. Today, Stuart O'Neill from Just One Reason joins Pod O'Sullivan to discuss suicide prevention, as well as Australia's very first mental health pub. If you’re a man navigating midlife and wanting real talk, practical wisdom, and a community that gets it, you’ll find this one hits home.Watch, learn, take something with you, and keep moving forward.
  • Retirement Done Right | Dr Jon Glass DEEP DIVE

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    In this special deep dive episode of Don't Let The Old Man In, Dr Jon Glass joins Pod O’Sullivan to unpack all things retirement.If you’re a man navigating midlife and wanting real talk, practical wisdom, and a community that gets it, you’ll find this one hits home.Watch, learn, take something with you, and keep moving forward.
  • The Tools To Overcome Imposter Feelings | Erin Buttermore DEEP DIVE

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    In this special deep dive episode of Don't Let The Old Man In, Erin Buttermore joins Pod O’Sullivan to unpack the imposter phenomenon.If you’re a man navigating midlife and wanting real talk, practical wisdom, and a community that gets it, you’ll find this one hits home.Watch, learn, take something with you, and keep moving forward.