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Scammed on a dating app
Anyone can be pulled into a romance scam. And with scammers using artificial intelligence to make their lies more convincing, even the smartest consumers can fall victim. Are the companies behind popular dating apps doing enough to protect their users?
This week, Michelle talks with Sen. Maggie Hassan of New Hampshire about her investigation into Match Group: the company behind Tinder, Hinge and Match.com. They discuss what the investigation uncovered, how AI is changing the way scammers operate and why victims shouldn’t shoulder the blame alone. Plus, the senator shares her efforts to make reporting scams easier and hold tech companies accountable.
Want Michelle to answer your money question? Email dollarsandsense@washpost.com for a chance to be on the show.
00:00 Welcome to Dollars & Sense with Michelle Singletary
01:20 Meet Sen. Maggie Hassan: What Her Investigation Uncovered
03:55 Match Group Responds to the Investigation
06:35 Why Sen. Hassan is Advocating for Scam Victims
08:39 The ReportScams.gov Act: What Would it Do?
11:32 How AI is Making Scams Harder to Spot
13:32 Why You’re Not Too Smart to Get Scammed
16:23 Romance Scams Steal More than Money
20:02 What Congress Can Do to Protect Scam Victims
22:18 Should I Buy This? I Need a New Car at 71
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44:20||Season 1, Ep. 4For decades, financial journalist and HerMoney CEO Jean Chatzky has told people to save, save, save for retirement. But what happens when it’s finally time to spend that hard-earned money? This week, Michelle talks to Jean, her longtime friend, about her new book, “The Forever Paycheck,” and the challenges of turning a lifetime of savings into retirement income. Together they explore why so many struggle to spend in retirement and how to start building a forever paycheck.Want Michelle to answer your money question? Email dollarsandsense@washpost.com for a chance to be on the show.00:00 Welcome to Dollars & Sense with Michelle Singletary01:41 Meet Jean Chatzky: HerMoney Founder02:58 How Has the Conversation Around Money Changed?05:55 What is a Forever Paycheck?09:30 Why Jean's Mother Couldn't Spend Her Retirement Savings12:57 Why We're So Afraid of Running Out of Money15:25 Michelle Can’t Spend $30 on a Phone Case18:36 When Couples Disagree About Retirement Spending20:09 Planning for the Retirement You Want22:01 How Much Money Do You Really Need to Retire?25:21 How to Start When Money is Tight28:49 Investments vs. Annuities: Which is Right for You?36:11 Give Yourself Permission to Enjoy Your Retirement38:58 Is the 4% Retirement Rule Still Reliable?41:17 Jean's Advice to Michelle
3. A gold medalist's olympic-sized money mistakes
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2. The surprising mistake many retired people make
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Introducing: Dollars & Sense With Michelle Singletary
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