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Divorce Comeback Coach
Cosmic Confidence: Healing Post-Divorce & Creating the Most True You
Kelly Irene lived as an imposter in her own life for over a decade--feeling as if she had to live as someone else in order to create a successful life. She discovered a different approach when she embarked on an exploration of self through personal astrology.
Today, Kelly is a successful HR Director, speaker, community builder, and the Founder of Most True You. Kelly creates experiences designed for professional women to discover the key ingredients to their own recipe for success. Through an exploration of astrological tools, Kelly’s audiences gain a blueprint for living with confidence as their most true self.
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192. Minimize the Time, Cost & Uncertainty of Divorce
48:21||Ep. 192In this episode, we delve into the innovative vision of Liz Pharo, CEO behind Divorce.com, a groundbreaking platform launched in 2022 with the mission of transforming the divorce process. Motivated by her own respectful divorce experience, Liz set out to revolutionize the way people approach separation, aiming to foster a more compassionate, less conflict-ridden path that reduces financial burdens. Divorce.com offers couples access to online divorce services at a fraction of traditional costs while also working to dismantle the stigma surrounding divorce.Here are the talking points that we’ve covered:The financial burden of divorce can can cause "liquidity bankruptcy," increasing emotional and psychological stress on families.Avoiding putting friends or children in the middle of personal issues with an ex-spouse prevents others from feeling pressured to take sides.Recognizing that mistakes like divorce are part of life and don’t define spiritual fate, focusing on forgiveness and growth.Changing the narrative around uncertainty can reveal major opportunities for growth and self-reclamation,Leaning into supportive communities during uncertain times can prove that love and encouragement are still available,Connect with Liz Pharo:Website: divorce.comInstagram: instagram.com/divorcedotcomTikTok: tiktok.com/@divorcedotcomTwitter/X: x.com/divorcedotcomLinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/divorce-com/Connect with Heidi Bee:Website: DivorceComebackCoach.com Instagram: @DivorceComebackCoachTikTok: @DivorceComebackCoachLinktree: Heidi Bee | Instagram, Facebook, TikTok | LinktreeEmail: DivorceComebackCoach@gmail.com Apple PodcastSpotifyAmazonGoogleAndroidBOOK YOUR FREE CLARITY CALL & CHAT ABOUT THE DIVORCE COMEBACK COMMUNITY & COURSE. $1K OFF ENROLLMENT AFTER CLARITY CALL WITH HEIDI191. What’s the Deal with Cheaters?
48:43||Ep. 191Dr. Marie Murphy is a relationship coach with a Ph.D. in the sociology of sexuality. She helps people who are cheating on their partners – or are engaging in anything they think counts as infidelity – to deal with their feelings, clarify what they want, and make decisions about what they’re going to do. A lot of the “advice” that’s out there for people who are cheating on their partners is little more than thinly veiled judgment, but that’s not what Marie provides. She gives you guidance and support that respects the fullness of your humanity, and the complexity of your situation – no matter what you’re doing. Marie also hosts the podcast “Your Secret is Safe with Me.Here are the talking points that we’ve covered: Infidelity does not inherently make someone a bad person.Understanding the reasons behind cheating to aid in moving forward.Addressing the stigmatized nature of infidelity from a neutral standpoint to avoid blame and regret.Disconnect between loving someone as a person and wanting them as a romantic partner.Societal pressures leading to marriages or partnerships that lack enthusiasm.Infidelity as a response to unmet romantic or intimate needs and as a trial for new relationships.Challenging the adage “once a cheater, always a cheater.”Diversity within infidelity: serial cheaters vs one-time incidents.Motivations behind serial cheating such as discomfort with monogamy or coping mechanisms. Understanding personal needs and desires before entering a marital relationship.Connect with Dr. Marie MurphyWebsite: mariemurphyphd.comInstagram: @mariemurphyphd Medium: @mariemurphyphdConnect with Heidi Bee:Website: DivorceComebackCoach.comInstagram: @DivorceComebackCoachTikTok: @DivorceComebackCoachLinktree: Heidi Bee | Instagram, Facebook, TikTok | LinktreeEmail: DivorceComebackCoach@gmail.com Apple PodcastSpotifyAmazonGoogleAndroidBOOK YOUR FREE CLARITY CALL & CHAT ABOUT THE DIVORCE COMEBACK COMMUNITY & COURSE. $1K OFF ENROLLMENT AFTER CLARITY CALL WITH HEIDI.190. Reversing Parental Alienation: How to Reunite with Your Kids
42:48||Ep. 190In this episode, we talk to Ginger Gentile, the "Erased Child Whisperer." Once a child caught in the middle of a bitter divorce, Ginger now helps parents facing similar battles find peace and reunite their families through her coaching and courses designed for extreme cases of Parental Alienation, Estrangement, and Refuse and Resist visitation. She is a documentary film-maker, activist, who is on a mission to reverse parental alienation – a silent epidemic in the US, Canada and the World.Her documentary, ‘Erasing Family’ shows children suffering from alienation reuniting with their parents. Ginger’s extensive work in the field has been featured on shows like Red Table Talk and Real Housewives of Orange County. She’s also been featured on NBC and CBS, The Atlantic, spoken at SXSW, and on many podcasts, including Divorce & Beyond, Host, Susan Guthrie. She has reunited numerous families and leads the only coaching program that features ex-alienated kids as coaches, using simple techniques to cure a complex problem.Here are the talking points that we’ve covered:Reversing parental alienation through coaching and documentary insights.Ginger’s personal experience with parental alienation and its societal impact.Unconditional love and understanding in differentiating true alienation from necessary separation.Recognition of subtle parental alienation tactics and their psychological impact on children.Strategies for healing trauma and breaking the cycle of parental alienation.The 'REVIVE' method's six steps to address parental alienation outside of the legal system.Connect with Gingerhttps://ReversingParentalAlienation.com https://ErasingFamily.org (to watch the film for free) @ErasingFamily on IG, FB and YTSpecial OfferThe first ten listeners to sign up for the Reversing Parental Alienation Roadmap Get 10% off with Code COMEBACKConnect with Heidi Bee:Website: DivorceComebackCoach.comInstagram: @DivorceComebackCoachTikTok: @YourDivorcePlanner (moving to @DivorceComeback Coach in 2024)Linktree: Heidi Bee | Instagram, Facebook, TikTok | LinktreeEmail: DivorceComebackCoach@gmail.com Apple PodcastSpotifyAmazonGoogleAndroid189. Escaping the Divorce Ditch
42:17||Ep. 189In this transformative episode, Heidi Bee, a certified and trauma-informed divorce coach, delves into the challenging journey of healing post-divorce. She debunks common myths about recovery, such as “time heals all wounds” and the rush to start dating, advocating instead for transformative healing work. Heidi discusses the distractions that can cloud our lives, from overworking to binge-watching, and shares practical strategies to acknowledge and process uncomfortable emotions.Learn about the six essential Cs for a successful comeback— Courage, Curiosity, Compassion, Commitment, Community and Connection. Finally Heidi introduces her exclusive three-month comeback community and course, designed to support women through recovery and self-discovery, empowering them to reclaim their lives and future.Here are the talking points that we’ve covered:Heidi’s own experience of feeling stuck for three years post-divorce. Debunking top myths such as “Time heals all wounds;” “Jump back into dating;” and “Think positively.”Identifying distractions and coping mechanisms like overworking, overeating, excessive drinking, binge-watching, oversleeping, over-socializing, obsessing over an ex’s life and over-exercising.Significance of recognizing and pausing to acknowledge feelings.Acronym PAUSE— Please Acknowledge Uncomfortable, Stuck Emotions Six essential Cs [Courage- embracing fear and taking bold steps; Curiosity- asking self-reflective questions without judgment; Compassion- practicing self-kindness and combating the inner critic; Commitment- making small, achievable promises to rebuild trust and joy; and Community and Connection- importance of a supportive network]. Introduction of the exclusive three-month comeback community and course.Connect with Heidi Bee:Website: DivorceComebackCoach.com Instagram: @DivorceComebackCoachTikTok: @YourDivorcePlanner (moving to @DivorceComeback Coach in 2024)Linktree: Heidi Bee | Instagram, Facebook, TikTok | LinktreeEmail: DivorceComebackCoach@gmail.com Apple PodcastSpotifyAmazonGoogleAndroidBOOK YOUR FREE CLARITY CALL & CHAT ABOUT THE DIVORCE COMEBACK COMMUNITY & COURSE. $1K OFF ENROLLMENT AFTER CLARITY CALL WITH HEIDI.188. Becoming Your Future Self Confidently with Julie DeLucca-Collins
51:38||Ep. 188Julie is a highly sought-after TEDx speaker, business coach, and award-winning author dedicated to empowering entrepreneurs and leaders to build and grow successful businesses. She’s also hosts a radio show, Confident You, as well as her top-rated podcast, Casa DeConfidence.Here are the talking points that we’ve covered:Julie’s transition from the corporate world to finding her true purpose in coaching.Small, incremental steps in rebuilding confidence after significant life events like divorce.Demystifying the myth that confidence is exclusive to extroverts.Authenticity and taking courageous actions.Using realistic affirmations and declarations.Visualizing future selves and aligning daily actions with core values.Automating behaviors and celebrating small wins to reinforce new habits.Role models and mentors in building confidence.Encouraging women to take risks and embrace opportunities, especially in male dominated fields.Role of coaching in fostering personal growth and accountability.Finding joy and contentment through self discovery and aligning actions with values.Connect with Julie https://www.goconfidentlycoaching.com/ https://www.instagram.com/julie_deluccacollins/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/goconfidentlyjulie/ https://www.facebook.com/jdelucca https://www.pinterest.com/juliedelco/ https://www.tiktok.com/@juliedeluccacollinsSpecial offerFree Tiny Habits coaching for 5 days https://www.goconfidentlycoaching.com/quicklinks Connect with Heidi BeeWebsite: DivorceComebackCoach.comInstagram:@DivorceComebackCoachTikTok: @YourDivorcePlanner (moving to @DivorceComeback Coach in 2024)Linktree: Heidi Bee | Instagram, Facebook, TikTok | LinktreeEmail: DivorceComebackCoach@gmail.comApple PodcastSpotifyAmazonGoogleAndroid187. There is Hope: Recognizing and Overcoming Emotional Abuse
57:17||Ep. 187Laura is an international podcaster and author dedicated to empowering women by providing a platform for sharing their profound stories of darkness and resilience.Through her acclaimed podcast, "That's Where I'm At," Laura unveils her personal journey of recovery from a 32-year marriage to a narcissist.She insightfully reveals the deceit and manipulation tactics used by abusers, offering guidance and support to help women recognize, understand, and heal from such experiences.Laura is also the author of the best selling book "There Is Hope: 52 Keys To Healing After Divorce," a book offering essential insights and strategies for rebuilding life after the end of a marriage & her newest book, “married to a nice guy: getting over narcissistic abuse”Here are the talking points that we’ve covered:Understanding what narcissism truly is and the misconceptions around it.How narcissistic behaviors manifest in various relationships.Recognizing emotional abuse even without physical violence.Laura’s personal journey of identifying and coping with covert narcissism.Concept of gaslighting and its impact on self esteem and mental health.Challenges of leaving a long term abusive relationship and the loss of friendships.The emotional complexities of healing from narcissistic abuse.Knowing your audience and the value of authenticity.Role of anger in the healing process and understanding complex PTSD.Concept of forgiveness and its necessity in moving forward.Differences between typical divorces and those involving narcissists. Connect with Laura https://www.thatswhereimatpodcast.com/https://www.amazon.com/author/laurarichardsSpecial Offerhttps://www.thatswhereimatpodcast.com/free-gift-from-lauraConnect with Heidi BeeWebsite: DivorceComebackCoach.comInstagram:@DivorceComebackCoachTikTok: @YourDivorcePlanner (moving to @DivorceComeback Coach in 2024)Linktree:Heidi Bee | Instagram, Facebook, TikTok | LinktreeEmail: DivorceComebackCoach@gmail.comApple PodcastSpotifyAmazonGoogleAndroid186. Crafting Your Post-Divorce Life Recipe
39:24||Ep. 186Brief BioJasmine has channeled her toughest life challenges, including a painful divorce and job loss, into powerful lessons of resilience and empowerment. As a dedicated life coach, she is passionate about helping others navigate their own transitions, whether they stem from personal loss, unexpected life changes, or everyday struggles. Helping others break free from the negative thinking patterns that have held them captive in a career, relationships, or overall life. Jasmine helps her clients experience the shift in perception that can turn obstacles into stepping stones and trials into triumphs.Connect with Jasminehttps://www.instagram.com/good.things.are.gonna.come/ , https://www.facebook.com/goodthingsaregonnacome , https://www.linkedin.com/in/jasmin-rice-co/, www.goodthingsaregonnacome.com, https://www.amazon.com/Create-Your-Recipe-After-Divorce/dp/0578302535Special offer Free self-care e-book: https://goodthingsaregonnacome.com/selfcare-workbook/185. Embracing a Fresh Start
34:05||Ep. 185Olivia Dreizen Howell, Co-Founder and CEO of Fresh Starts Registry, is a clinical hypnotherapist, a neurolinguistic practitioner, a certified life and success coach, and a single mom. After her divorce in 2019, Olivia realized that we celebrate weddings and babies with a registry, but in the moments we really need to restock our life, like divorce, job loss, or any brave decision and major life change, we need the support, both in the form of support items for your home and the experts who become our hype team. Alongside her sister, Jenny Dreizen, Olivia founded Fresh Starts Registry, a first-of-its-kind platform built to support those going through brave and bold changes, such as divorce, job changes, coming out, living through grief, and more, by revolutionizing the art of starting again.Connect with Olivahttps://www.freshstartsregistry.com/https://divorceguide.co/https://www.instagram.com/freshstartsregistry/https://afreshstory.com/3 questions I could as you that will focus on your desired messageHow to build a divorce registryHow to start fresh after a divorceHow to work with experts to support you after a divorce184. Thriving After Divorce: Cultivating Mind, Body, Soul Coherence
49:55||Ep. 184Leah Rose is a spiritual medium, mentor, energy healer, integrative somatic practitioner, wife, and mom of three lively boys. After her initial marriage ended in divorce, she faced the challenge of rebuilding her life with two young children, having been a stay-at-home mom. Leah's healing journey through divorce brought about a profound spiritual awakening, leading her to the work she does today: teaching and facilitating meditation, belief work, intuition development, breath work, somatic healing, and energy healing. She offers The Goddess in You, a 12-week divorce recovery and wellness program empowering women to reinvent their lives and thrive post-divorce by integrating tools for nervous system regulation, increased self-worth, and spiritual connection.Here are the talking points that we’ve covered:Engaging with nature can help us reconnect with this sense of presence, essential for overall health.Adhering to external conditions or expectations can lead to resistance and dissatisfaction.Presence can access different levels of consciousness and contribute to overall well-being.Techniques like Reiki can be used for self-healing by tuning into the body's energy.Thoughts and emotions can manifest physically, indicating areas that need attention.Connect With LeahIG: iamleahrose_Website: www.leahrosehealing.comSpecial Offer: 20% off Soul Session (1:1 intuitive healing session integrating intuitive readings, energy healing, and integrative somatic techniques to help you move through your healing and navigate life's challenges.)Connect with Heidi BeeWebsite: DivorceComebackCoach.comInstagram:@DivorceComebackCoachTikTok: @YourDivorcePlanner (moving to @DivorceComeback Coach in 2024)Linktree: Heidi Bee | Instagram, Facebook, TikTok | LinktreeEmail: DivorceComebackCoach@gmail.comApple PodcastSpotifyAmazonGoogleAndroid