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Q&A: Should She Forgive Her Friends After THIS?

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Jo and Zoe dig in to your questions and comments. Should this listener forgive her friends for not checking in? One mum shares a moving conversation with her son, and we hear how Dig It brought two listeners together… in New Zealand!

Plus, Jo and Zoe are joined by Counselling Psychologist Dr Ritz Birah who shares her tips for the perfect night’s sleep - from brain flossing, to the ultimate relaxation technique.


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📧 Email us: questions@digitpod.co.uk

📱 Text or Voice Note: 07477 038795

💬 Or tap here to send a voice note or message on WhatsApp:⁠ ⁠https://wa.me/447477038795


SPECIAL THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS

This episode is brought to you by Panda London, NIVEA, Thriva, The Woodland Trust, Arla B.O.B, Kukoon and Charlie Bigham’s.


🐼 Panda London — Make hot flushes and night sweats more manageable with Panda London’s beautifully soft, breathable and thermoregulating bamboo bedding. Head to pandalondon.com/digit to discover menopause-friendly bedding and get 15% off your next order.


⛈️ NIVEA - Brave the elements beautifully, with NIVEA. https://www.sainsburys.co.uk/groceries/product/nivea-625ml-rich-nourishing-dry-skin-body-lotion


🩸 Thriva - Look after what matters with Thriva’s personalised at-home health tracking and doctor support. Dig It listeners get 10% off their first order at www.thriva.co/digit


🍽️ Charlie Bigham’s — Look out for all the Charlie Bigham's dishes on your next shop. Charlie Bigham's, Slowly Does It.


🌳 The Woodland Trust - Join the Woodland Trust from just £4 a month and support the protection of the UK's woods and trees. Visit woodlandtrust.org.uk/join and find out more.


🥛 Arla B.O.B – Looking for an easy swap without compromising on taste? Arla B.O.B tastes just like semi-skimmed milk but with all the benefits of skimmed. It's perfect in your morning tea or coffee, and easy to spot in the supermarket with its distinctive yellow top. Give Arla B.O.B a try and see if you can taste the difference.


CREDITS

Exec Producer: Sam Michell

Producer: Eve Jones

Assistant Producer: Sabah Salam

Technical Producer: Oliver Geraghty

Video Editors: Cameron Laird and Jack Whiteside

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