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20 - Big Feelings
Season 1, Ep. 20
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Do you ever poke fun at your friends and wonder if you went too far? This week, Rachelle and Alyssa dive deep into the nuances of joking, annoyance levels (on a scale of 1 to 3, obviously), and why being perceived in public is basically the worst. We talk about pet-sitting a very anxious golden retriever, cry about how hard it is to have big feelings, and go on a spiral about language, specifically why "arbitrary" might not be the best word for it.
We also tackle:
- The difference between habits and routines (and why calling routines “lazy” got under our skin)
- Why some sunglasses are basically invisibility cloaks
- Trauma dumping vs. genuine connection
- That time Alyssa almost peed her pants, but still hasn’t peed outside
Plus, we bring back our favorite card deck for a few self-reflective questions, and Rachelle shares a beautiful story about missing her cousin, Tyler.
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