Dear Universe, we need to talk!

This week on Dear Universe We Need To Talk, we're talking about mum guilt - the invisble pressure that follows mothers everywhere. From working mum guilt and screen time shame to "Disneyland dads." emotional labour, social media perfection, and why women everywhere feel guilty for simply needing a break, we unpack the impossible expectations placed on modern mums. In true Dear Universe style, it's honest, funny, relatable, and slightly chaotic - because parenting isn't Pinterest boards and organic cucumber sandwiches cut into stars... it's surviving on cold tea, fish fingers, and pure determination.

This week on Dear universe, we need to talk.... I accidentally locked my phone inside a house and had absolutely no way of getting it back for an entire week. No WhatsApp, no banking, no social media, no contact. And of course... it happened right before my sons 13th birthday.What started as pure chaos quickly spiralled into stress, mum guilt, logistical nightmares and one very humbling financial moment that completely threw me. But somewhere amongst the panic and noise, something unexpected happened....Things got quiet.In this episode, I unpack what losing my phone taught me about modern life, constant connectivity, mental overload, distraction, productivity and presence - and why being forced off-grid may have been the accidental reset I didn't know I needed. A funny, honest and surprisingly emotional episode about what happens when your entire life lives inside one little rectangle..... and suddenly disappears.

In this episode, I talk about the reality of moving in with my boyfriend and blending our families - the chaos, the noise, the funny moments, and the unexpected calm that comes with it. From navigating new roles to rebuilding trust after a difficult relationship, this is an honest look at what happens when life doesn't go to plan.... but somehow can grow into something beautiful.

In this episode I talk honestly about the reality of divorce grief - the loss of the life you thought you were building, the identity shift when "we" suddenly becomes "I", and the emotional chaos that can follow. From the messy "feral era" nobody warns you about, to the science behind why your nervous system goes into survival mode after relational trauma, this episode explores what it actually looks like to rebuild yourself after everything falls apart.Because healing after divorce isn't linear, it isn't pretty, and it definitely isn't quiet - but it is possible.

Antidepressants - the word we still whisper.... even though half of us are quietly on them. In this episode of Dear universe, we need to talk, I open up about my complicated relationship with sertraline, the stigma around antidepressants (especially for men), and why needing support doesn't mean your weak - it means you're human. If you've ever felt shame, fear or confusion around antidepressants... this ones for you!

"This week I'm moving back in with my parents at 41..... with three kids.... and zero shame. Let's talk chaos, comfort, family boundaries, and why sometimes the bravest move is the one back home."

In this episode of "Dear universe, we need to talk" we dive into the chaotic mental aftermath of traumatic moments - the intrusive "what if..." thoughts, the rewinding of scenes, and the brain's talent for creating 50 alternate realities that never happened. I'm sharing my own experience of navigating that mental car crash, why our minds spiral into these scenarios, and how we can start grounding ourselves when the thoughts feel overwhelming. If you've ever found yourself replaying events, questioning every detail, or imaging every possible outcome.... you're not alone. This episode is for anyone trying to make sense of their thoughts after life shakes things up. Tune in, take a breathe, and lets talk it through - together.