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If I Can’t Have You; Mark van Dongen

Season 6, Ep. 20

Mark van Dongen was twenty-nine, living in Bristol, England, and building a life he’d worked hard for.

When his relationship with Berlinah Wallace began to break down, it was complicated. Drawn out. Difficult to leave.

Until one night, everything changed.

Mark survived what followed. But survival came at a cost that would reshape every part of his life, and raise questions that don’t have easy answers.

This season finale explores what happened behind closed doors, and the decisions that turned it into one of the most complex cases the UK has seen.

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