Share

cover art for Ep. 2: Auntie Ain't Raise No Fool

Crawl Before You Ball® Love, Relationships & Money

Ep. 2: Auntie Ain't Raise No Fool

Season 1, Ep. 2

In this week’s episode of Crawl Before You Ball, Auntie Buffie sits down with newlyweds Tracy and Eric to discuss the complexities of balancing love, life, and finances. From navigating food budgets to managing expectations about kids, this episode is filled with practical tips for any couple trying to find their groove.


Highlights from this episode include:

  • How to handle meal planning and budgeting without guilt 🍽️💸
  • Setting healthy boundaries with family and friends when it comes to questions about having kids 👶🏽
  • The importance of financial automation and why it can be a game-changer for busy couples 💡


Tune in to hear how Tracy and Eric have learned to blend their lifestyles, set financial goals, and support each other on this journey of marriage.



Follow Auntie Buffie:


Learn more and grab Auntie Buffie’s book & course:

  • [Click Here] Get Auntie Buffie's latest book to dive deeper into her life-changing advice on money, relationships, and more
  • [Click Here] Want to level up even faster? Check out Auntie Buffie’s course for in-depth lessons on mastering life, love, and finances


Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review on Apple & Spotify! Your support helps Auntie Buffie continue to serve up the wisdom every week.


More episodes

View all episodes

  • 6. Ep. 6: Ballin' On a Budget

    39:53||Season 1, Ep. 6
    In this episode of Crawl Before You Ball, Auntie Buffie sits down with Valeka to discuss how past financial mistakes impact our mental health, the importance of practicing "financial mental health," and ways to build wealth one step at a time. Auntie Buffie shares her best tips on avoiding high-interest debt, managing credit effectively, and leveraging resources for financial support.Highlights from this episode include:Auntie Buffie’s “financial mental health” practices and how to recover from financial traumaAdvice on managing credit cards, avoiding scams, and why DIY credit repair may be your best optionValeka’s story of building a thriving notary business, Midtown Atlanta Notaries, and her advice on leveraging your network for successPractical steps for ensuring credit health and the dos and don’ts of co-signing or taking on others' financial obligationsTune in to hear Auntie Buffie and Valeka share empowering insights and actionable steps to reclaim financial peace and build a lasting legacy.Follow Auntie Buffie:InstagramTwitterFacebookYouTubeLearn more and grab Auntie Buffie’s book & course:[Click Here] Get Auntie Buffie's latest book to dive deeper into her life-changing advice on money, relationships, and more[Click Here] Want to level up even faster? Check out Auntie Buffie’s course for in-depth lessons on mastering life, love, and financesDon’t forget to subscribe and leave a review on Apple & Spotify! Your support helps Auntie Buffie continue to serve up the wisdom every week.
  • 5. Ep. 5: Learn to Fight Fair

    44:03||Season 1, Ep. 5
    In this week’s episode of Crawl Before You Ball, Auntie Buffie sits down with Sabine and Ejiro, a powerhouse couple dedicated to building wealth and uplifting their community. Together, they unpack the essentials of talking finances early in relationships, blending finances as a couple, and the unique aspects of managing a dual-business household.Highlights from this episode include:Why financial transparency matters in relationships and how to address red flags early onSabine and Ejiro’s story of starting Brooklyn Funding Group and breaking ground as the first Black-owned private lending company in real estateTips on balancing separate and joint finances, even when marriedAuntie Buffie’s take on setting up UTMA accounts for generational wealth and creating flexible financial plans for kidsJoin Auntie Buffie, Sabine, and Ejiro as they share powerful insights on securing a legacy, making wise investments, and navigating the challenges of business and family life.Follow Auntie Buffie:InstagramTwitterFacebookYouTubeLearn more and grab Auntie Buffie’s book & course:[Click Here] Get Auntie Buffie's latest book to dive deeper into her life-changing advice on money, relationships, and more[Click Here] Want to level up even faster? Check out Auntie Buffie’s course for in-depth lessons on mastering life, love, and financesDon’t forget to subscribe and leave a review on Apple & Spotify! Your support helps Auntie Buffie continue to serve up the wisdom every week.
  • 4. Ep. 4: First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage

    46:54||Season 1, Ep. 4
    In this episode of Crawl Before You Ball, Auntie Buffie welcomes newlyweds Naomi and Jordan to dive into the essentials of financial planning for couples. From managing joint finances to setting up trusts and planning generational wealth, Auntie Buffie guides Naomi and Jordan through the steps to secure their family’s financial future.Highlights from this episode include:The importance of open conversations about budgeting and finances in relationshipsHow Naomi and Jordan are building generational wealth with custodial accounts, 529 plans, and life insuranceSetting up trusts to protect assets and ensure peace of mind for loved onesAuntie Buffie’s advice on balancing independent and joint financial accounts for long-term successJoin Auntie Buffie and her guests as they discuss the steps couples can take to create a strong financial foundation and keep future generations thriving.Follow Auntie Buffie:InstagramTwitterFacebookYouTubeLearn more and grab Auntie Buffie’s book & course:[Click Here] Get Auntie Buffie's latest book to dive deeper into her life-changing advice on money, relationships, and more[Click Here] Want to level up even faster? Check out Auntie Buffie’s course for in-depth lessons on mastering life, love, and financesDon’t forget to subscribe and leave a review on Apple & Spotify! Your support helps Auntie Buffie continue to serve up the wisdom every week.
  • 3. Ep. 3: Flag On The Play

    34:07||Season 1, Ep. 3
    In this week’s episode of Crawl Before You Ball, Auntie Buffie digs deep into financial red flags that everyone should be aware of when dating or considering marriage. From bad credit to living an Instagram lifestyle they can’t afford, Auntie Buffie gives practical advice on spotting warning signs and addressing them before co-mingling finances. 💸Highlights from this episode include:Why multiple baby mamas/daddies and financial secrecy are red flags 🚩How to budget your time and money as a couple while navigating entrepreneurship 💼Tips on keeping the spark alive while balancing work, love, and family life 🔥Auntie Buffie also chats with newlyweds Kayla and Garin about balancing entrepreneurship, budgeting time, and keeping the love strong while preparing for their first child. 💖Follow Auntie Buffie:InstagramTwitterFacebookYouTubeLearn more and grab Auntie Buffie’s book & course:[Click Here] Get Auntie Buffie's latest book to dive deeper into her life-changing advice on money, relationships, and more[Click Here] Want to level up even faster? Check out Auntie Buffie’s course for in-depth lessons on mastering life, love, and financesDon’t forget to subscribe and leave a review on Apple & Spotify! Your support helps Auntie Buffie continue to serve up the wisdom every week.
  • 1. Ep. 1: Til Debt Do We Part

    48:04||Season 1, Ep. 1
    In the first episode of Crawl Before You Ball, Auntie Buffie kicks off the series with a powerful discussion on planning for the future—while keeping the spark alive in your relationships! This episode is packed with practical advice on everything from choosing the right life insurance to creating a will, and even how to maintain that “spicy” energy with your partner💃🏽Highlights from this episode include:Why life insurance isn’t just for “old folks” 🧓🏽The essential steps to creating a will that reflects your wishes 📝Fun tips on how to keep your marriage spicy after decades together 💍🔥Plus, Auntie Buffie sits down with viral couple Ms. Rita and Mr. Theodore, who share their secrets to a 43-year marriage that’s stronger (and spicier) than ever! Tune in for their invaluable advice on love, money, and planning for the future 🌶️Guest Contact Information:Ms. Rita & Mr. TheodoreFollow Auntie Buffie:InstagramTwitterFacebookYouTubeLearn more and grab Auntie Buffie’s book & course:[Click Here] Get Auntie Buffie's latest book to dive deeper into her life-changing advice on money, relationships, and more[Click Here] Want to level up even faster? Check out Auntie Buffie’s course for in-depth lessons on mastering life, love, and financesDon’t forget to subscribe and leave a review on Apple & Spotify! Your support helps Auntie Buffie continue to serve up the wisdom every week.
  • Auntie Has A Podcast!

    01:30||Season 1, Ep. 0
    Crawl Before You Ball: Love, Relationships & Money is a podcast dedicated to empowering couples to navigate the complex world of finances together. Financial expert Buffie Purselle hosts the show and offers practical advice, real-life stories, and expert insights to strengthen relationships and economic futures.Buffie's unique approach combines her expertise in finance with her warm and relatable personality. She delivers Auntie Know's best guidance on love and finances, offering practical tips and strategies that can be applied to any relationship stage. From single and dating to engaged, married, divorced, or widowed, the podcast caters to couples at all stages of life.What to expect:Expert insights: Hear from financial experts, relationship counselors, and other professionals who share their knowledge and experience on various topics related to money and relationships.Real-life stories: Discover how real couples have overcome financial challenges, built wealth together, and strengthened their relationships through financial understanding and cooperation.Auntie knows best guidance: Benefit from Buffie's wisdom and experience as she offers advice and encouragement based on her own life and the experiences of her listeners.Join us on this journey of financial empowerment and relationship growth. Crawl Before You Ball is your go-to resource for navigating the complex world of money and love together.