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Andy Kindler and Wayne Federman, Sara Schaefer and Charla Lauriston
Ep. 64
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In episode 64, Naomi and Andy bring us sets from buds Andy Kindler (@AndyKindler) and Wayne Federman (@Federman) and good friends Charla Lauriston (@charlalauriston) and Sara Schaefer (@saraschaefer1). Plus they spend some time discussing their driving adventures on their way up to Santa Barbara from Los Angeles. Also tickets for their live show in Los Angeles on November 5th at The Virgil are available now on the website under 'See Us Live.'
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