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  • 4. 3 Relationship Experts on Low Libido, Forgiveness and Mental Load | Experts Roundtable S3E4

    55:32||Season 3, Ep. 4
    It's hard to know where to go for marriage advice, so we brought 3 relationship experts back into the studio to ask them more of your questions about what makes relationships work at every stage of life. How do we manage when the mental load of life becomes overwhelming, or when financial stress, low libido or marriage secrets threaten to damage our relationship beyond repair? Do we need to share everything with our partner, or should we hold some things back?Philip Jinadu, Cathy Madavan and Katharine Hill have decades of experience supporting couples, and they answer your questions with hard-won wisdom on the importance of gratitude, love languages and forgiveness. _________Whether you're newlyweds or been married for 50+ years, this is the podcast for couples navigating the day-to-day reality of marriage. Who want more than they've got, who care about making relationships work in a culture where it feels like everything is against commitment and long-term love. We talk to couples who've built strong marriages through hardship and change, alongside experts sharing practical, research-grounded marriage advice — the Gottman Method, premarital preparation, and what actually makes a marriage work long after the wedding day.Every episode brings you real stories from real couples and experts who've really lived it: infertility, chronic illness, addiction, financial pressure, blended families and everything in between. We don't do easy answers or clickbait relationship hacks. We do hope. Because whatever you're facing, you're not the first couple to face it, and you won't be the last to come through the other side stronger.Our guests bring you their highs, their lows and what they’ve learned – so we can help you build a stronger relationship and know that whatever you’re going through right now, you’re not alone. These are honest, unfiltered conversations about intimacy, communication, marriage, mental health, resilience and faith, hosted by Luke and LJ Meates.Topics covered include anxiety, building connection, infertility, bereavement, mental health, faith, growing a family, parenting, communication, love languages, disability, hope, conflict, sex and intimacy and much more.Couple Goals is produced by Care for the Family, a UK charity that's supported relationships for over 30 years. Our expertise is brought together here with fresh coaching and insight for a new generation of couples building their relationship from the ground up.New episodes every week, wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribe for interviews, expert insight and real stories from real couples — because your relationship is worth investing in.www.cff.org.uk

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  • 3. Answering Your Top Relationship Advice Questions | Experts Roundtable | Couple Goals S3E3

    58:18||Season 3, Ep. 3
    We took three relationship experts and asked them your marriage advice questions around the impact of different life stages and how that can change your relationship dynamic. How menopause and perimenopause can impact your relationship. Libido differences between partners. Why 'grey divorce' is so common and how it's most often instigated by couples growing apart and the empty nest syndrome. Katharine Hill, Philip Jinadu and Cathy Madavan have decades of experience supporting, mentoring and encouraging couples. Between them, they've spoken with thousands about relationships and have helped many through challenging situations.They're answering questions that get to the heart of what life throws at our relationships. There's relationship advice here for everyone, no matter what stage you're at._________Whether you're newlyweds or been married for 50+ years, this is the podcast for couples navigating the day-to-day reality of marriage. Who want more than they've got, who care about making relationships work in a culture where it feels like everything is against commitment and long-term love. We talk to couples who've built strong marriages through hardship and change, alongside experts sharing practical, research-grounded marriage advice — the Gottman Method, premarital preparation, and what actually makes a marriage work long after the wedding day.Every episode brings you real stories from real couples and experts who've really lived it: infertility, chronic illness, addiction, financial pressure, blended families and everything in between. We don't do easy answers or clickbait relationship hacks. We do hope. Because whatever you're facing, you're not the first couple to face it, and you won't be the last to come through the other side stronger.Our guests bring you their highs, their lows and what they’ve learned – so we can help you build a stronger relationship and know that whatever you’re going through right now, you’re not alone.These are honest, unfiltered conversations about intimacy, communication, marriage, mental health, resilience and faith, hosted by Luke and LJ Meates.Topics covered include anxiety, building connection, infertility, bereavement, mental health, faith, growing a family, parenting, communication, love languages, disability, hope, conflict, sex and intimacy and much more.Couple Goals is produced by Care for the Family, a UK charity that's supported relationships for over 30 years. Our expertise is brought together here with fresh coaching and insight for a new generation of couples building their relationship from the ground up.New episodes every week, wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribe for interviews, expert insight and real stories from real couples — because your relationship is worth investing in.www.cff.org.uk
  • 2. Living With Hope Through Miscarriage, Chronic Illness and Grief | Couple Goals S3E2

    01:03:31||Season 3, Ep. 2
    Miscarriage, baby loss, chronic illness, grief - Tia and Marlon Wallen have been through a lot of hardship together as a couple. They're also a blended family, with Tia already raising her 3-year-old son when they first met. For many couples this might all have been too much to bear, but their resilience, love for each other and commitment to hope sustained them in their toughest moments.Before they welcomed a miraculous baby girl this year, Tia's struggles with endometriosis and fibromyalgia meant they experienced a succession of miscarriages across a ten year infertility journey that took its toll on Tia's health. Marlon's work as a successful creative director, choreographer and founder of Flawless dance collective alongside Tia's content creation work and online success meant that everything seemed fine on the surface - but underneath they were hanging on by their fingertips, navigating a new relationship reality that was a world apart from where things began for them.They told us their story and how they made it through to today - including the ways they worked to support one another through it all, the sustaining power of their faith and a supportive community of close couples who they know they can always rely on. _________Whether you're newlyweds or been married for 50+ years, this is the podcast for couples navigating the day-to-day reality of marriage. Every long-term relationship gets tested — by illness, loss, financial pressure or life just not going to plan. This is for couples building resilience together: real stories of getting through the hardest seasons, plus expert insight on what actually helps a relationship bend without breaking. Resilience isn't about avoiding hard times — it's about facing them together.Every episode brings you real stories from real couples and experts who've really lived it: infertility, chronic illness, addiction, financial pressure, blended families and everything in between. We don't do easy answers or clickbait relationship hacks. We do hope. Because whatever you're facing, you're not the first couple to face it, and you won't be the last to come through the other side stronger.Our guests bring you their highs, their lows and what they’ve learned – so we can help you build a stronger relationship and know that whatever you’re going through right now, you’re not alone. These are honest, unfiltered conversations about intimacy, communication, marriage, mental health, resilience and faith, hosted by Luke and LJ Meates.Topics covered include anxiety, building connection, infertility, bereavement, mental health, faith, growing a family, parenting, communication, love languages, disability, hope, conflict, sex and intimacy and much more.Couple Goals is produced by Care for the Family, a UK charity that's supported relationships for over 30 years. Our expertise is brought together here with fresh coaching and insight for a new generation of couples building their relationship from the ground up.New episodes every week, wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribe for interviews, expert insight and real stories from real couples — because your relationship is worth investing in.www.cff.org.uk
  • 1. Rachel and Tim Hughes: Work Life Balance, Resentment, Sex Life, Seasons of Life | Couple Goals S3E1

    01:11:07||Season 3, Ep. 1
    Tim Hughes and Rachel Hughes spoke to us about how their marriage has navigated huge work life balance challenges related to Tim's work as a worship leader and changing seasons of life.Welcoming us to Gas Street Church where they have been church planting together for a decade, the Hughes' let us peek behind the curtain of their relationship, revealing how conflict resolution has changed for them over the years, the importance of their sex life and intimacy together (and how they deal with the challenges of managing this whilst parenting four children!), their adoption journey and what it's really like to lead together on a daily basis. Along the way, we also hear about the importance of taking out the bins (IYKYK), how vital a support network is for any married couple and what it's like for your mums to work together to get you to start dating. _________Whether you're newlyweds or been married for 50+ years, this is the podcast for couples navigating the day-to-day reality of marriage. Who want more than they've got, who care about making relationships work in a culture where it feels like everything is against commitment and long-term love. We talk to couples who've built strong marriages through hardship and change, alongside experts sharing practical, research-grounded marriage advice — the Gottman Method, premarital preparation, and what actually makes a marriage work long after the wedding day.Every episode brings you real stories from real couples and experts who've really lived it: infertility, chronic illness, addiction, financial pressure, blended families and everything in between. We don't do easy answers or clickbait relationship hacks. We do hope. Because whatever you're facing, you're not the first couple to face it, and you won't be the last to come through the other side stronger.Our guests bring you their highs, their lows and what they’ve learned – so we can help you build a stronger relationship and know that whatever you’re going through right now, you’re not alone. These are honest, unfiltered conversations about intimacy, communication, marriage, mental health, resilience and faith, hosted by Luke and LJ Meates.Topics covered include anxiety, building connection, infertility, bereavement, mental health, faith, growing a family, parenting, communication, love languages, disability, hope, conflict, sex and intimacy and much more.Couple Goals is produced by Care for the Family, a UK charity that's supported relationships for over 30 years. Our expertise is brought together here with fresh coaching and insight for a new generation of couples building their relationship from the ground up.New episodes every week, wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribe for interviews, expert insight and real stories from real couples — because your relationship is worth investing in.www.cff.org.uk
  • 9. The conversation most couples never have (but should) | Kate Moyle | Couple Goals S2E9

    46:17||Season 2, Ep. 9
    Theres a reason that sexual wellness is such a big challenge in so many relationships - and it's not what you might think. Psychosexual therapist Kate Moyle joined us to talk about why communication skills are such a key part of building intimacy in marriage, how we need to broaden our understanding of sexual health and wellbeing and how any couple can start to grow their intimacy together.Kate is the host of The Sexual Wellness Sessions podcast and author of The Science of Sex, two resources that aim to demystify sex therapy and sexual wellbeing, helping people to understand more about what things can impact their intimate lives and how to bring about positive change.Our conversation with Kate was uplifting and encouraging, with lots of easy-to-apply strategies and techniques for how to have conversations about sex as a couple. Her goal is to remove the shame and stigma from these conversations in order to empower couples to recognise that there's a huge amount of hope for change, even when they're really struggling._________________________________Couple Goals is back for Season 2 with a whole new slate of guest couples and experts! Our hosts Luke and LJ Meates are asking, 'how do we make relationships work in the face of everything life throws at us, in a culture where it feels like everything is against commitment and long-term love?'Every episode, couples share honest relationship stories about their best and worst moments together - revealing how they survived relationship challenges, what they learned, and how their couples advice could benefit us all.Featuring deep conversations about real relationships that don't hide the hard stuff, this couples podcast is for anyone seeking relationship advice, wants to hear authentic love stories, or simply loves love.Topics covered include anxiety, building connection, infertility, bereavement, mental health, faith, growing a family, parenting, communication, love languages, disability, hope, conflict, sex and intimacy and much more.From Care for the Family, a UK charity dedicated to strengthening family life. cff.org.uk
  • 8. We ALWAYS make sure we do this... Balancing fame and family | JB and Chloe Gill | Couple Goals S2E8

    01:02:07||Season 2, Ep. 8
    JB and Chloe Gill have lived their whole relationship in the public eye. They met whilst filming X Factor in 2008 when JB was performing with boyband JLS and Chloe was a professional dancer. There was an instant connection, but building a relationship together wasn't easy. As they both toured all over the world, performing and working in the music industry, it was anything but straightforward. Looking back now, they can see just how tough it was for them to survive that time.But across the years together, they've stayed united and built a strong marriage on the principle that family always comes first. Right from the off, they put things in place to ensure they always stay connected and ensured that they were completely aligned on everything that mattered.Now their world also includes TV work, their award-winning turkey farm, content creation and the performing careers of their two children, things haven't slowed down!They took the time to speak to us about how they make sure they focus on strengthening their connection, what really happened when they first met and the one key rule they've always followed across their marriage which has kept them strong._________________________________Couple Goals is back for Season 2 with a whole new slate of guest couples and experts! Our hosts Luke and LJ Meates are asking, 'how do we make relationships work in the face of everything life throws at us, in a culture where it feels like everything is against commitment and long-term love?'Every episode, couples share honest relationship stories about their best and worst moments together - revealing how they survived relationship challenges, what they learned, and how their couples advice could benefit us all.Featuring deep conversations about real relationships that don't hide the hard stuff, this couples podcast is for anyone seeking relationship advice, wants to hear authentic love stories, or simply loves love.Topics covered include anxiety, building connection, infertility, bereavement, mental health, faith, growing a family, parenting, communication, love languages, disability, hope, conflict, sex and intimacy and much more.From Care for the Family, a UK charity dedicated to strengthening family life. cff.org.uk
  • 7. Neurodivergent Relationships - Different Brains, Same Team | Pete and Sophie Killingley | Couple Goals S2E7

    01:04:12||Season 2, Ep. 7
    How do you make your relationship work when your brains are wired differently? What impact does neurodivergence have on a marriage? Is it always going to be challenging, or are there benefits to building a life with someone who is completely opposite to you?These (among many others) are questions Sophie and Pete Killingley have navigated over the last 21 years.Illustrator Sophie has ADHD, whilst Pete, Head of Church Engagement at CARE is neurotypical. They have very different ways of approaching the world, and for them, that's become a strength they draw on. But, that doesn't mean it's always been easy.From the early days of married life, there was a huge amount to learn about how to love one another well in the simplest moments of daily life. And when children came along - both eventually being diagnosed with autism - family life became filled with intricate considerations and adjustments.They've come a long way and learnt a lot, working together to present a united front from which they can parent, work and love each other best.This conversation is full of joy, realism and hope about the day-to-day reality of neurodivergent relationships, autism parenting and celebrating your differences.____________________Couple Goals is back for Season 2 with a whole new slate of guest couples and experts! Our hosts Luke and LJ Meates are asking, 'how do we make relationships work in the face of everything life throws at us, in a culture where it feels like everything is against commitment and long-term love?'Every episode, couples share honest relationship stories about their best and worst moments together - revealing how they survived relationship challenges, what they learned, and how their couples advice could benefit us all.Featuring deep conversations about real relationships that don't hide the hard stuff, this couples podcast is for anyone seeking relationship advice, wants to hear authentic love stories, or simply loves love.Topics covered include anxiety, building connection, infertility, bereavement, mental health, faith, growing a family, parenting, communication, love languages, disability, hope, conflict, sex and intimacy and much more.From Care for the Family, a UK charity dedicated to strengthening family life. cff.org.uk