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Controlling Your Chaos

Building a Family Business From the Ground Up | Controlling Your Chaos Ep. 6

Season 1, Ep. 6

On this episode of Controlling Your Chaos, Cortney sits down with Norma Lira, real estate agent, to discuss what happens when a mom builds an empire alongside her husband without ever losing sight of her kids. Norma shares the journey that took her from the lending side of the business to real estate and property management, all while raising four children, two of whom now work alongside her. She opens up about showing property with toddlers in the back seat, why hiring a nanny before an assistant changed everything, and how she learned to treat her kids' swim meets and recitals like non-negotiable appointments on her calendar.


Norma and Cortney also dive into running a business alongside a spouse without crossing professional lanes, the power of leveraging support instead of doing it all, and why she still shows up to every closing and why controlling your chaos sometimes means realizing it was never about balance, just alignment.


Connect with Norma Lira on social media to learn more about her real estate and property management services in San Antonio.


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