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10. CS10: The inner game behind outer success
47:40||Season 1, Ep. 10Award-winning speaker, author, and sales + mindset master - Ian Stephens’ story is one of grit, reinvention + deep personal growth. Born “cold, wet, bald and hungry… and then things got worse,” Ian’s journey took him from a tough family upbringing to leading a $200 million sales team by age 28 - and losing it all a year later. Rebuilding himself from the inside out, Ian unlocked the power of mindset + purpose, becoming one of Australia’s most sought-after speakers and trainers in sales + leadership development. Ian unpacks how early family conflict, two marriage breakups, and a search for self-understanding led him to his life’s work: helping others transform pressure into performance. Ian reveals how emotional intelligence, blended with behavioural strategies, can transform communication and strengthen relationships. A raw, wise + unexpectedly funny exploration of the inner game behind outer success.
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9. CS9: When the stories that once silenced us set us free
46:18||Season 1, Ep. 9Narrative therapist and mediator Debbie Dunn shares her remarkable journey from being dishonourably discharged from the British Women’s Air Force for her same-sex relationship to becoming a pioneering voice in narrative mediation and workplace bullying support. Debbie delves into her personal story of resilience, the significance of narrative techniques in mediation and the transformative power of sharing one's story to move from shame to strength. Debbie's story is a testament to how sharing our narratives - including those shaped through struggle - can become an act of courage, connection + change.
8. CS8: What do politics, comedy and conflict have in common?
01:00:17||Season 1, Ep. 8This podcast episode features an in-depth conversation with Mandy Nolan, a comedian, author, speaker, and politician. Hosted by Sam Hardy and Scott Dutton, the discussion explores Mandy’s tumultuous upbringing marked by domestic violence, the role of humor in navigating life's challenges, and her experiences in stand-up comedy and politics. Mandy discusses her ability to manage conflict, including interactions with audiences and political opponents, emphasizing the importance of resilience, compassion, and listening. The episode also touches on her unconventional family dynamics and her efforts to maintain constructive relationships with her ex-partners for the sake of their children. Through various anecdotes, Mandy illustrates how humor, empathy, and open-mindedness can transform conflict into opportunities for growth.
7. CS7: Self care and assume good intent
38:52||Season 1, Ep. 7CEO, Advocate and Change-Maker Stacey Ross is a visionary and dynamic leader transforming how communities respond to domestic, family and sexual violence. As CEO of The Centre for Women & Co. and Men & Co. Services, she leads with purpose - delivering vital support across SE QLD and driving social justice reform nationwide. Stacey shares her leadership approach - turning conflict into growth, embedding values into daily practice and prioritising self-care + staff empowerment as essential to culture. She reveals why self-awareness and assuming good intent are leadership superpowers, and how they sustain high-performance teams in high-pressure, purpose-driven environments.
6. CS6: High-stakes conflict - and a deeply human approach to resolving it
37:59||Season 1, Ep. 6Clinical psychologist, former police negotiator and counter-terrorism expert Kieran Plasto shares powerful insights from a career spanning armed sieges to executive tensions. With experience across law enforcement and HR, he brings a rare depth of perspective to high-stakes conflict - and a deeply human approach to resolving it. Kieran unpacks his philosophy of conflict resolution, grounded in dignity, kindness and the often-overlooked power of listening. He shares a gripping story of crisis intervention with a young offender, and reflects on why humility and curiosity are superpowers in navigating conflict across cultures, contexts and careers.
5. CS5: From being held hostage to institutional discrimination
01:05:06||Season 1, Ep. 5TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains discussions of trauma, discrimination, captivity and sexual assault which some listeners may find distressing.In this episode of the Conflict Stories podcast, Sam and Scott speak with Rabia Siddique, an international humanitarian lawyer and former senior British Army officer. Rabia recounts her journey from a challenging multicultural childhood, through traumatic experiences, including being a hostage in Iraq, to her legal battle against institutional discrimination. She shares insights on personal resilience, the importance of justice, and the power of fighting for equality. Despite facing numerous adversities, Rabia's story is one of immense courage and unwavering commitment to human rights.
4. CS4: high-stakes emotional conflicts in property auctions
54:44||Season 1, Ep. 4In this episode of Conflict Stories, Sam Hardy and Scott Dutton are joined by Tom Panos, a renowned real estate coach and auctioneer. Tom shares his experiences growing up in a conflict-averse Greek family, the challenges of managing family conflicts with his children, and the high-stakes emotional conflicts that arise during property auctions. He discusses the importance of pausing, being curious, and assuming that everyone is doing their best in conflict situations. Panos also touches on his personal battles with cancer and how they have influenced his perspective on life and conflict resolution.