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Confessions Of A Successful Leader

Overcoming Perfectionism: Debbie Jenkins' Journey to Balanced Leadership

Season 1, Ep. 34

Are you a driven leader grappling with perfectionism and control issues? This candid conversation with Debbie Jenkins, an electronics engineer turned author coach, offers a refreshing perspective on embracing vulnerability and finding balance in leadership.


With a diverse background spanning entrepreneurship and engineering, Debbie shares her transformative journey from a relentless, perfectionistic mindset to a more balanced approach to work and life.


Here are 5 key insights you'll gain from this enlightening episode:

➡️ Understand how childhood experiences and early responsibilities can shape leadership tendencies.

➡️ Learn strategies for letting go of control and empowering your team to thrive.

➡️ Discover the power of embracing an experimental mindset to overcome perfectionism.

➡️ Gain insights into cultivating self-compassion and extending kindness to others.

➡️ Explore practical ways to find beauty in everyday moments and create space for personal growth.


Debbie's relatable journey from a driven, control-oriented professional to a fulfilled coach and mentor is both inspiring and actionable.


🎥 If you're ready to elevate your leadership approach, find more harmony within, and create a positive ripple effect in your organization, this conversation is a must-watch.


⏰ 0:02 Introduction to Confessions of a Successful Leader

⏰ 1:27 From Electronics Engineer to Book Writing Coach: Debbie Jenkins' Journey

⏰ 7:30 The Impact of Childhood Experiences on Leadership Style

⏰ 12:15 Overcoming Control Issues and Learning to Delegate

⏰ 16:45 Embracing an Experimental Mindset and Self-Compassion

⏰ 19:30 Finding Beauty in Life and Work: A New Perspective

⏰ 21:45 Overcoming Excessive Rationalization with Stoic Wisdom

⏰ 24:35 Future Goals and Making a Difference Through Books


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