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Ep. 480: Financial Identity: Are You Still Living by Your Parents’ Money Rules

Are your financial habits really yours or did you inherit them?


Many Filipinos grew up with money rules like “magtiis ka,” “bahala na,” or “don’t talk about money.” And without realizing it, these old beliefs still shape how we save, spend, earn, and even dream today.


In this eye-opening episode, Pambansang Wealth Coach Chinkee Tan breaks down how family money rules influence your financial identity and how you can gently rewrite the patterns you inherited. Learn the psychology behind generational money beliefs, what research says about financial socialization, and the practical steps to build a money mindset that truly reflects you, not your past.


If you’ve ever felt guilty spending, afraid to invest, or pressured to follow your family’s financial patterns, this episode will help you break free with wisdom and compassion.


#ChinkPositive #ChinkeeTan #MoneyIdentity #GenerationalWealth #MoneyMindsetPH #FinancialHealing #BreakTheCycle #FinancialFreedom #MindsetShift

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