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‘Love Is Not Enough’ Why Couples Must Talk About Money [Chills 259, Sponsored by OCBC]
Is talking about money before your wedding unromantic, or is it the ultimate act of love?
From 'death files' to treating a marriage like an M&A merger, we’re peeling back the layers on how to build a financially stable future without the awkwardness.
Dive into the uncomfortable but necessary conversations couples should have before and during marriage, and why avoiding them can lead to bigger problems later.
- Vasu Menon, Managing Director, Investment Strategy, OCBC Bank - a wealth management veteran who brought his expertise home to his own marriage
- Wong Kai Yun, Senior Partner, Dentons Rodyk - a family lawyer specialising in structuring instead of just disputes
- Chen Shao Chun, Founder, 9 to 5 Millionaire Mindset - a personal finance advocate focused on helping working professionals build wealth through investing, financial literacy, and long-term financial planning
- The money talk couples avoid
- Marriage as a financial partnership, from shared goals to aligning risk appetite and spending habits.
- Budgets, spreadsheets & reality checks
- What to do when things go wrong - disputes, power of attorney
- From insurance and investments to wills, LPAs, and protecting your family.
Whether you're single, engaged, or married, this episode might change how you think about love and money.
🎧 Tune in to hear the stories, the lessons, and the conversations most couples never have, until it’s too late.
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