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Chasing Joy
From Pain to Purpose
Season 2, Ep. 41
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What happens when pain becomes the turning point… not the end of the story?
In this episode of Chasing Joy, we sit down with Kevin Weaver-Bey to explore his journey from injury, frustration, and feeling stuck… to purpose, connection, and meaningful work.
After years of chronic pain and reliance on prescription medication, Kevin reached a breaking point. When he was unexpectedly laid off during the pandemic, he was forced to ask a deeper question… not just “What do I do next?” but “How do I actually want to live?”
What followed wasn’t just a career pivot… it was a complete realignment. Through personal healing, curiosity, and a genuine desire to help others, Kevin built a business rooted in care, connection, and service… turning his own pain into something that now helps others move more freely, physically and emotionally.
But this conversation goes far beyond CBD or entrepreneurship...
It’s about:
- Listening to the quiet voice telling you something needs to change
- Breaking free from work that doesn’t reflect who you are
- Turning setbacks into catalysts for growth
- Building a life around meaning instead of just making a living
- And rediscovering the simple truth… that helping people is where real fulfillment lives
If you’re feeling stuck, disconnected, or unsure of your next step… this episode is a reminder that your path might already be trying to find you.
Find all of Kevin's healing products from Leaf Made Organics at https://leafmadecbd.com/
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