Challenges That Change Us

Try our FREE burnout quiz.Grab your burnout workbook HERE. If you would like us to work with your team book a 30 min chat HERE.This week we are exploring a challenge but in a slightly different way.Anna Grosman is an entrepreneur whose diverse career journey has seen her work in roles from Medical Clinic Manager, to founder of two male escort agencies for women.Her Confidant came from years of listening to women share their frustration with modern dating, emotional disconnect, and a culture that still shames female desire, founderAnna Grosman set out to build something different. The only male companionship agency in Australia built exclusively for women, designed around emotional intelligence, consent, and genuine human connection.But what is it like to not only start a business in the challenging field of the sex industry, but also to do so in what could be considered the ‘less known’ side of the field; providing male escorts for women. In this episode she shares: Anna's early life and sexual awakeningHow she built a business in the escort industryHer advice on how to navigate the stigma and embrace your sexualityHer client experiences and booking processWhat actually is Companionship and what does it involveHer recruitment and selection processThe safety measures she has in place for clients and staffThe importance of sex education and communicationThe stigmas and misconceptions in the industry Key Quotes “Society and the education system have to start teaching kids from a young age about consent, respect, and understanding their own bodies.”No one blinks an eye when a man goes to a brothel or uses an escort agency. It's been sort of their right as young boys when they turn 18. It’s societal norms and the way we've been raised in religion that have created these double standards."More Information about Anna Follow Anna on Instagram, or find her website here. You can get involved with the podcast online On facebook in our community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/challengesthatchangeusOr on Instagram: @challengesthatchangeusIf you want to contact the podcast, email us here: support@challengesthatchangeus.comOr check out our website: www.Challengesthatchangeus.comIf you want to find out more about what Ali does, check out her business via the website:http://www.trialtitudeperformance.com.auInterested in DISC personality profiling or a Burnout workshop for your team, get in touch with Ali today.

Try our FREE burnout quiz.Grab your burnout workbook HERE. If you would like us to work with your team book a 30 min chat HERE. The relationship between disability and personal identity is incredibly complex and navigating that can take a lot of work and self-analysis.For Skye Shannon, growing up with Spina Bifida had an obvious impact on her life, but it wasn’t until she underwent an amputation in her adult years that she really felt the impact on her personal identity.In this conversation, Skye Shannon shares her profound journey living with Spina Bifida, detailing her experiences from childhood through adulthood. She discusses the challenges of growing up with a disability, the impact of social dynamics in school, and the numerous surgeries she underwent to manage her condition. Skye reflects on her identity, the emotional toll of her amputation, and the ongoing struggle with phantom pain. Her story is one of resilience, independence, and the complex relationship between disability and self-perception.  In this episode she shares: -      What it was like growing up with Spina Bifida-      What is Spina Bifida-      The impact of her disability on her personal identity-      Her journey to find someone who would help her do the surgery she needed-      Life after her amputation and the difficulties she encountered-      Her experiences with phantom pain-      Understanding the impact of amputation-      Her fears and challenges in daily life now-      Her advice for those facing similar challenges Key Quotes “I ended up with maggots in my toes.” “It had gotten to the stage where my hip had completely disintegrated.” More Information about Skye Follow her on Linkedin. You can get involved with the podcast online On facebook in our community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/challengesthatchangeusOr on Instagram: @challengesthatchangeusIf you want to contact the podcast, email us here: support@challengesthatchangeus.comOr check out our website: www.Challengesthatchangeus.com If you want to find out more about what Ali does, check out her business via the website:http://www.trialtitudeperformance.com.au  Interested in DISC personality profiling or a Burnout workshop for your team, get in touch with Ali today.

Try our FREE burnout quiz.Grab your burnout workbook HERE. If you would like us to work with your team book a 30 min chat HERE.We’ve heard countless times on this podcast how the western medical system can often get in the way of, or even prevent people from being diagnosed or healed.But in today’s episode we are joined by someone who proved her doctors wrong after they told her there was no hope in regards to her condition.Michelle Niemeyer is a speaker, coach and former attorney who teaches professionals how to bend time so they can stay sharp, productive and profitable – without burning out. After finding her way to burnout and back in her own high-performing legal career, Michelle created The Art of Bending Time, a framework that helps people connect the dots across work, life, and purpose to magnetise success and reclaim their joy. She helps businesses retain top talent, boost development, and keep their people energised and engaged, all while making the magic happen.In this episode she shares:Her early career life and why it was damaging herHow she lived with terrible symptoms that she thought were just normalThe moment where everything changedWhat happened when she went to hospital and why it didn’t helpWhat she was finally diagnosed with after multiple different doctor visitsThe extreme diet she did to try and fix it The shocking prognosis her doctors gave herHow she beat the oddsHer greatest strengths that helped see her through thisThe insights she has gained from her experienceKey Quotes“I didn’t realise that I was living in a lifestyle that was very, very chronically stressful all of the time.”More Information about MichelleText CLARITY to 33777 to join her community.If that doesn’t work in your home country, you can also sign up for The Art of Bending Time Community here. You can also go to her websiteYou can get involved with the podcast onlineOn facebook in our community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/challengesthatchangeusOr on Instagram: @challengesthatchangeusIf you want to contact the podcast, email us here: support@challengesthatchangeus.com Or check out our website: www.Challengesthatchangeus.comIf you want to find out more about what Ali does, check out her business via the website: http://www.trialtitudeperformance.com.auInterested in DISC personality profiling or a Burnout workshop for your team, get in touch with Ali today.

Try our FREE burnout quiz.Grab your burnout workbook HERE. If you would like us to work with your team book a 30 min chat HERE. Welcome to our third and last bonus episode on burn out.So far we have discussed how to identify burn out and how you can prevent it, but what if you’re already in it?Well I’ve brought our in house psychologist Vanessa De Sauty back to help work out how we can find our way back to reality if we are in the middle of burn out. In this episode we share:-      How our subconscious thoughts can influence how we see ourself-      How these unhelpful core beliefs can influence burn out-      Examples of unhelpful core beliefs and thoughts-      How to combat these unhelpful thoughts and core beliefs-      What is understanding emotional regulation?-      The power of acceptance and commitment therapy to combating burn out-      Some strategies you can use for grounding and anchoring-      How to identify your personal stress profile-      How you can make a burnout recovery plan Key Quotes “Burn out is a signal ,it is not an identity.”VanessaTo find out more about Vanessa, check out her website HERE.  You can get involved with the podcast online On facebook in our community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/challengesthatchangeus

Try our FREE burnout quiz. Grab your burnout workbook HERE. If you would like us to work with your team book a 30 min chat HERE. Trigger warning: suicide, mental healthFor Tara J Lal, trauma and loss is sadly nothing new, but in a sea of trauma, for some people it can still be one event that stands out as a truly identifying point and that is very much the case for Tara.Amongst losing her mother to Cancer at 13 and dealing her father’s mental health battles it was the loss of her brother to suicide that defined a very clear before and after in her life. Now, Tara is the internationally published author of Standing on my Brothers Shoulders – Making Peace with Grief and Suicide. She is also a qualitative researcher, keynote speaker, and former firefighter and has won multiple awards for her work supporting mental health and suicide prevention particularly in the emergency services sector. Tara is passionate about integrating lived experience with research and storytelling to challenge traditional perspectives on mental health and suicide prevention. In this episode she shares:Her early childhood realisation about her fatherHer mother’s death from cancer when she was a child and how it shattered her familyHow she leant on her brother after losing their motherThe moment her brother took his own lifeThe emotional turmoil she went through in the years following her brother’s deathHow her struggles manifested into panic attacksThe impact of her father’s mental health and diagnosesThe moment that made her realise she could move forward after her brother’s lifeHow her coach tried to take advantage of her and her vulnerabilityThe moment in her adult life that prompted her to see a trauma focused therapistHer path to her PHDThe big year where things piled up and triggered her traumaHow she works through her trauma now Key Quotes“It just felt like everything that I loved and every person that I loved in the world had been taken from me.”“When I was 13 my mother died.”“At some point I remember realising that my dad wasn’t well.” More Information about TaraFind out more about Tara via her website. You can get involved with the podcast onlineOn facebook in our community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/challengesthatchangeusOr on Instagram: @challengesthatchangeusIf you want to contact the podcast, email us here: support@challengesthatchangeus.comOr check out our website: www.Challengesthatchangeus.comIf you want to find out more about what Ali does, check out her business via the website:http://www.trialtitudeperformance.com.auInterested in DISC personality profiling or a Burnout workshop for your team, get in touch with Ali today.

Try our FREE burnout quiz.Grab your burnout workbook HERE. If you would like us to work with your team book a 30 min chat HERE. Imagine pouring your heart and soul into a business and having it succeed, only to lose it all because of a relationship breakdown with the business partner you worked with.That’s what happened to Annette Densham and it left her feeling lost, hurt and struggling.Annette Densham was fifteen when she wrote her first newspaper story about a local school fête. It taught her something: everyone has a story worth telling, if you know where to look. Forty five years later, she's still telling stories. Enticing them out of people in business who think they’re 'just ordinary', turning them into business awards, media features, and brands that stand for something. She digs until she finds the thread that makes someone unforgettable, then weaves it into something so sticky it clings to judges, journalists, and customers. In this episode she shares: -      How her love for storytelling began in childhood.-      The significant challenges in her business partnership.-      The feelings of shame and guilt can arise from perceived failures.-      How her mental health was impacted by the business breakdown-      Why listening to your body can help discern feelings of fear versus challenge.-      How effective communication during personal changes was crucial for maintaining her relationships.-      How finding joy in small moments can help during tough times. Key Quotes “I was compromising myself for everybody else.” “Mentally I felt broken. I felt like a loser.” More Info on AnnetteFind out more on her website, or via facebook and Linkedin. You can get involved with the podcast online On facebook in our community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/challengesthatchangeusOr on Instagram: @challengesthatchangeusIf you want to contact the podcast, email us here: support@challengesthatchangeus.comOr check out our website: www.Challengesthatchangeus.com If you want to find out more about what Ali does, check out her business via the website:http://www.trialtitudeperformance.com.au  Interested in DISC personality profiling or a Burnout workshop for your team, get in touch with Ali today.