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EP7: The Cost of Being La Más Chingona

Season 1, Ep. 7

In this episode, we explore how perfectionism uniquely affects Latinas, shaped by cultural expectations, family dynamics, and the pressure to succeed in systems not built for us. We unpack the roots of perfectionism, including the "good girl" narrative, the pressure to represent our community, and the fear of failure passed down through generations. With compassion and honesty, we dive into what healing looks like: embracing rest, setting boundaries, releasing guilt, and redefining success on our own terms. This episode is an invitation to choose progress over perfection and to honor our whole, imperfect selves.

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