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Introducing: Can't Host

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. 

We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. 

If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place!


About Your Host


I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.

Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth.


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Can't Host Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/canthostpodcast/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos

Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/


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Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd


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  • 3. Ep. 57: Manual Foreskin Restoration Techniques with Tim Hammond

    43:45||Season 3, Ep. 3
    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠In this episode, we’re joined by Tim Hammond, a renowned expert in foreskin restoration. We explore the motivations behind choosing to regrow your foreskin, discussing both the physical and emotional benefits. Tim breaks down the pros and cons of manual versus surgical restoration methods, offering insights into what each approach entails and which might be the right fit for you. Curious about the time commitment? We’ll cover how long it typically takes to see results and dive into the most effective devices and tools available for manual restoration. Whether you're considering restoration for yourself or simply interested in learning more, this episode provides a comprehensive guide to reclaiming your body naturally.ABOUT TIM HAMMONDTim was the co-founder in 1989 of the National Organization of Restoring Men (NORM). He later founded the National Organization to Halt the Abuse and Routine Mutilation of Males (NOHARMM), In 1995 he produced Whose Body, Whose Rights?, the world's first full length documentary to question circumcision and which is now in the American Archive of Public Broadcasting. From 1999 to 2023 Tim has published three large scale surveys of circumcision sufferers and foreskin restorers. Tim is currently Executive Director of the Genital Autonomy Legal Defense and Education Fund (GALDEF), a non-profit organization that seeks to use the U.S . legal system to achieve equal protection of the bodily integrity and genital autonomy of all children, regardless of sex or gender.Foreskin Restoration info: https://foreskinrestoration.info/National Organization of Restoring Men (NORM): https://norm.org/Circumcision harm surveys: https://circumcisionharm.org/Genital Autonomy Legal Defense & Education Fund (GALDEF): https://www.galdef.org/CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg
  • 2. Ep.56: Circumcision Myths, Intactivism, and Foreskin Restoration with Georganne Chapin

    56:50||Season 3, Ep. 2
    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠In this episode, Georganne Chapin – a leading advocate in the intactivist movement – debunks the most common myths surrounding circumcision, explores the cultural and historical roots of this practice, and discusses the often-overlooked consequences of routine circumcision. Georganne sheds light on the growing movement of foreskin restoration, offering insight into non-surgical options for men seeking to reclaim their physical and emotional well-being. Additionally, we delve into the psychological trauma many men experience from childhood circumcision and the healing process that can follow.ABOUT GEORGANNEIntact America: https://intactamerica.org/Skin In the Game: https://skininthegame.org/This Penis Business book: https://www.amazon.com/This-Penis-Business-Georganne-Chapin/dp/1950495450/CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg
  • 1. Ep.55: Orgies, Sex Parties and the City

    54:14||Season 3, Ep. 1
    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠In this juicy episode, I’m spilling all the tea on my sexual adventures from this summer, including attending my first-ever sex party in New York! From navigating new sexual spaces to pushing myself out of my comfort zone, this journey has been eye-opening in so many ways. I’ll be sharing lessons learned on setting boundaries in intimate encounters, learning to respect your body’s needs and desires, and how to approach new experiences with curiosity and confidence.CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg
  • 23. Ep.54: Is Gay Pride Still Important? (Pride Attendees)

    10:00||Season 2, Ep. 23
    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠ During Pride Cyprus, I asked people whether Pride is important. I've edited their replies into this short episode, highlighting the issues and themes that our community continues to face. The spirit of Pride is especially lively in Cyprus, as we are still campaigning for equal human rights. CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
  • 22. Ep.53: 'Never Have I Ever' Gay Sex Edition with Kiriakos Spanos (Leo Domenico)

    01:00:45||Season 2, Ep. 22
    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠ In this episode, I talk with my friend and Only Fans creator Kiriakos Spanos (Leo Domenico). Kiriakos and I met during our teenage years growing up in Cyprus and we've been connected ever since. In this candid episode, we play a fun game of Never Have I Ever with gay sex questions. Listen to hear us talk about our erogenous zones, sex talk, watching straight porn, using sex toys, our kinks and fetishes, and more. I also asked Kiriakos to rate my private album on Grindr... Leo Domenico's OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/theleodomenico Kiriakos' Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kiriakosspanos/ CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
  • 21. Ep.52: Growing Up in a Homophobic Country with Alex Englezou

    01:04:07||Season 2, Ep. 21
    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠ In this episode, I chat with my friend Alex Englezou about our experiences growing up gay in Cyprus. We talk about our encounters with bullying and homophobia, coming out to our parents, and our journey to healing trauma and embracing our authentic selves. We also discuss how our relationships with cis straight men have changed over the years and the importance of healing the collective toxic masculine energy. Finally, Alex and I talk about the significance of LGBTQIA+ Pride parades and how the community has helped us heal and grow over the years. Watch Alex's video about his recent hate crime: https://avant-garde.com.cy/articles/prosopa/alex-krizy-kapoia-atoma-sanalex-krizy-kapoia-atoma-san-emas-prepei-na-skeftontai-i Alex's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shekrizy/ Alex giving me a Drag Queen makeover: https://youtu.be/reRDz54pwQI?si=jPU82upzz9bdODYH CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj⁠⁠⁠⁠ Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf⁠⁠⁠⁠ Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd⁠⁠⁠⁠ Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr⁠⁠⁠⁠
  • 20. Ep.51: Cock Rings for Harder Erections and Longer Orgasms with Dr. Elliot Justin

    36:02||Season 2, Ep. 20
    Buy a FirmTech ring and get 10% off using coupon code canthost or via this affiliate link: https://myfirmtech.com?sca_ref=6026421.q59KYoO7dcIljU&utm_source=george-lizos&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=affiliate In this episode, we discuss cock rings and their potential benefits for sexual health with Dr. Elliot Justin. We explore how cock rings could be beneficial for individuals with specific health conditions such as diabetes or heart disease, shedding light on their potential role in enhancing sexual performance and satisfaction. Dr. Justin also discusses whether erectile dysfunction (ED) can serve as an early warning sign of current or future heart problems, emphasizing the importance of addressing underlying health issues. Additionally, we delve into the significance of Venous Leak Syndrome and its impact on erectile function, providing valuable insights into diagnosis and treatment options. Discover the innovative FirmTech ring and how it differs from traditional rings, offering a unique approach to addressing sexual health concerns. Elliot Justin MD is the CEO and Founder of FirmTech, the first sex tech company dedicated to improving men’s erectile fitness. He has a background in Emergency Medicine and healthcare technology consulting. Dr. Justin is also a serial healthcare entrepreneur, having founded and sold Pegasus Emergency Group and Swift MD. He has provided guidance to various services, telemedicine, and tech startups. Dr. Justin pursued Slavic Studies at Harvard University and studied medicine at Boston University. CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj⁠⁠⁠ Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf⁠⁠⁠ Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd⁠⁠⁠ Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr⁠⁠⁠
  • 19. Ep.50: Non-Surgical Penile Enlargement with Dr. Judson Brandeis

    35:13||Season 2, Ep. 19
    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠ In this episode, we delve into the realm of non-surgical penile enlargement methods with renowned urologist Dr. Judson Brandeis. Join us as we explore the most common enlargement methods people turn to and why they often fall short of expectations. Dr. Brandeis sheds light on the potential risks associated with traditional methods and how they stack up against promised results. Discover the innovative P-Long protocol and how it works to deliver significant size enhancements. From Tri-Mix to Penile botox, we weigh the pros and cons of these alternative approaches to penile augmentation. Dr. Judson Brandeis is an award winning urologist and sexual medicine expert, clinical researcher, physician educator, and a caring clinician and surgeon. A graduate of Brown University and Vanderbilt University School of Medicine, with Urologic Surgery residency at UCLA and a post-doc fellowship at Harvard, today he specializes in the emerging field of sexual health and medicine. P-Long Protocol: https://p-long.com/ Dr. Brandeis' website: https://brandeismd.com/ Increasing Penile Length and Girth in Healthy Men Using a Novel Protocol: The P-Long Study - https://www.longdom.org/open-access/increasing-penile-length-and-girth-in-healthy-men-using-a-novel-protocolthe-plong-study-101696.html EPISODE MENTIONED Ep.3.: Does Size Matter in Gay Sex? with Sergio Zapata - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/george-lizos/episodes/Ep--3-Does-Size-Matter-In-Gay-Sex--With-Sergio-Zapata-e1r4ubb CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj⁠⁠ Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf⁠⁠ Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd⁠⁠ Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr⁠⁠
  • 18. Ep.49: Biphobia, Black Bisexuality, and Transcending Masculinity with J.R. Yussuf

    52:17||Season 2, Ep. 18
    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠ In this episode, we're joined by J.R. Yusuf, who challenges misconceptions about bisexuality and advocates for its non-binary nature. Delve into discussions on overcoming biphobia, as well as the intersectionality of bisexuality and pansexuality. Additionally, explore J.R. Yussuf's insights on redefining masculinity and transcending societal norms. www.georgelizos.com J.R. Yussuf is the 1st place winner of the Reviewers Choice Award in the self-help category for "The Other F Word: Forgiveness." Yussuf's latest book, "Dear Bi Men: A Black Man's Perspective on Power, Consent, Breaking Down Binaries, and Combating Erasure," is being published by North Atlantic Books. Yussuf created the Twitter hashtag #BisexualMenSpeak for bisexual+ men and masculine-identified folks to have the space to speak for themselves and talk about how being bisexual+ impacts the way they move through the world. He also maintains the Let's Heal Already podcast, devoted to mental wellness, emotional literacy, and forgiveness. J.R.'s website: http://www.jryussuf.com/ Dear Bi Men book: https://www.amazon.com/Dear-Bi-Men-Perspective-Combating/dp/1623179688/ EPISODES MENTIONED Ep.48: Taking Someone's Gay Virginity: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/george-lizos/episodes/Ep-48-Taking-Someones-Gay-Virginity-e2hs66s Ep.38: Do Bisexual Men Exist? with Vaneet Mehta: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/george-lizos/episodes/Ep-38-Do-Bisexual-Men-Exist--With-Vaneet-Mehta-e2bva22 Ep.3: Does Size Matter in Gay Sex? with Sergio Zapata: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/george-lizos/episodes/Ep--3-Does-Size-Matter-In-Gay-Sex--With-Sergio-Zapata-e1r4ubb CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/ Website: https://georgelizos.com/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Secrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr