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Can't Host: Gay, Bisexual, and Queer Men’s Sex and Relationships
Sex and relationships guidance for gay, bi, and queer men.
Can't Host is a gay and queer men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and g
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14. Ep.68: Bisexual in a Straight Marriage with Wayne Scott
30:29||Season 1, Ep. 14Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnetIn this deeply honest episode of Can't Host, writer and therapist Wayne Scott opens up about the complexities of queer identity beyond binary labels like "gay" or "straight." Reflecting on his journey of coming out later in life while raising children and navigating a heterosexual marriage, Wayne shares the nuances of bisexuality, the pain of having his truth oversimplified, and the liberation found in embracing his queerness. We explore how shame has shaped—and ultimately evolved—his story, what it means to not “queer correctly,” and how he’s reclaimed his narrative outside the confines of traditional queer tropes. For anyone questioning their identity within a straight relationship, this episode offers profound insight, compassion, and hope.Order my book 'Ancient Manifestation Secrets' and get a FREE past-life regression workshop to retrieve manifestation skills: https://georgelizos.com/ancientmanifestationsecretsJoin the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipABOUT WAYNE SCOTTWayne Scott’s writing has appeared in The Sun, Poets and Writers, The Psychotherapy Networker, Huffington Post, and The Oregonian, among others. His New York Times essay, “Two Open Marriages in One Small Room” (January 2020) was adapted for the Modern Love podcast and read by Edoardo Ballerini (summer 2021). He is a writer, psychotherapist, and teacher in Portland, Oregon.Website: https://www.waynescottwrites.com/Instagram: @waynejosephscottCONNECT WITH ME Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg
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13. Ep.67: Kinks, Fetishes, and Fisting Training with Alexander Cheves
40:11||Season 1, Ep. 13Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnetIn this raw and radically honest episode of Can’t Host, I’m joined by sex writer and activist Alexander Cheves—author of My Love Is a Beast: Confessions—to dive deep into the world of kink, fetish, and fisting. We explore the psychology behind bottoming anxiety, how to train for intense sexual experiences, and the sacred role kink can play in healing shame. From his evangelical upbringing to becoming a national voice for queer erotic liberation, Alexander opens up about sex work, substance use, and the fears many gay men carry around their bodies and desires. This is an unfiltered conversation about reclaiming pleasure, breaking taboos, and turning your kink into a path of self-love.Order my book 'Ancient Manifestation Secrets' and get a FREE past-life regression workshop to retrieve manifestation skills: https://georgelizos.com/ancientmanifestationsecretsJoin the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipABOUT ALEX CHEVESAlexander Cheves is a Berlin-based author and sex educator. He writes the "Last Call" sex and culture column for Out Magazine and is the author of "My Love Is a Beast: Confessions," an erotic essay collection from Unbound Edition Press, and his next book will come out in the fall of 2026. Website: http://alexcheves.com/Instagram: @badalexcheves EPISODES MENTIONEDOrgies, Sex Parties and the City: https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/67065c2447b414d1544aa774Safe Anal Sex Practices with Dr. Evan Goldstein: https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/66867b5704b201dd3472a0d2CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg12. Ep.66: Somatic Sex Secrets for Deeper Pleasure with Court Vox
39:31||Season 3, Ep. 12Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnetWhat if the key to mind-blowing sex isn’t a new position—but a deeper connection to your body? In this juicy episode, somatic sex coach Court Vox breaks down the transformative power of touch, breath, and body awareness in unlocking deeper pleasure, healing sexual shame, and getting out of your head and into your crotch. We talk mindful masturbation, breathwork for better orgasms, overcoming performance anxiety, and how to use somatic practices to create more intimacy—solo or with a partner. If you’ve ever felt disconnected during sex or want to feel more, this episode is your permission slip to slow down, tune in, and turn yourself the f*ck on.Order my book 'Ancient Manifestation Secrets' and get a FREE past-life regression workshop to retrieve manifestation skills: https://georgelizos.com/ancientmanifestationsecretsJoin the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipABOUT COURT VOXCourt Vox is a Somatic Sex & Intimacy Coach, Surrogate Partner, and the Founder of The BodyVox. Through his courses, workshops, retreats, and private immersions, he helps clients overcome limitations and shame, fostering deeper intimacy and connection with their whole selves. Website: http://www.thebodyvox.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebodyvoxCONNECT WITH ME Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg11. Ep.65: U=U, Dating Poz, and Breaking HIV Stigma with Adrian Posea
29:59||Season 3, Ep. 11Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnetIn this episode, HIV advocate Adrian Posea shares his journey of living Poz with pride, breaking stigma, and navigating dating and relationships with an undetectable status. We explore the emotional impact of an HIV diagnosis, the realities of disclosure and rejection, and the misconceptions around U=U. Adrian also opens up about his work in LGBTQ+ activism, the lessons he's learned from different cultures, and the importance of self-acceptance, offering a candid and empowering perspective on life with HIV.Adrian's Instagram: @adrianposea89 CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg10. Ep.64: Psychic Medium Channels the Spiritual Mission of Queer People with Anthony Zambito
50:01||Season 3, Ep. 10Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnetIn this episode, psychic medium Anthony Zambito channels messages from spirit guides and ancestors to reveal the deeper spiritual mission of queer people. We explore the unique gifts and sensitivities of queer individuals, past life connections, breaking toxic relationship patterns, and the role of queer love in spiritual evolution. Anthony also shares spirit’s perspective on soulmates, open relationships, and sex, offering a fresh and empowering look at queerness through a spiritual lens.Episode 27: The Benefits of Being Single - https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/66867b5704b201dd3472a0cbAnthony's Psychic Medium Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sotto.cielo.sessions/Anthony's Performance Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anthonyzambito/CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg9. Ep.63: Queerness, Sacred Orgies, and Being a Radical Faerie with Omri
35:17||Season 3, Ep. 9Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnetIn this episode, Omri takes us inside the world of the Radical Faeries, a queer spiritual movement that blends sexuality, mysticism, and countercultural rebellion. We explore their history, rituals, and the role of erotic energy in Faerie gatherings. What really happens in these spaces of radical love and uninhibited self-expression? How do Faeries challenge mainstream LGBTQ+ norms and create utopian queer sanctuaries? Join us as we dive into the sensual, sacred, and subversive world of the Radical Faeries.ABOUT OMRIOmri is a certified massage therapist with over seven years of experience in the healing arts, blending deep tissue, trigger point therapy, energy work, and relaxing strokes to create a transformative experience. Trained at Hawaii Massage School in Swedish, Deep Tissue, Thai Massage, and Lomi Lomi, Omri combines physical, energetic, and emotional healing techniques, drawing on his expertise as a yoga instructor, reiki master, and EFT practitioner.Omri's website: https://www.omrinavot.com/MMX NYC: https://www.mmxnyc.com/MMX Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mmx_nyc/Omri's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oms_o_o/CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg8. Ep.62: Cock Worship, Naked Yoga, and Sensual Touch with Omri
38:38||Season 3, Ep. 8Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnetIn this episode, George Lizos and guest Omri explore the transformative power of sacred sensuality and intimacy. From the benefits of naked yoga in fostering connection and vulnerability to practical ways of experiencing sensual pleasure without sex, they uncover tools for deepening relationships and self-awareness. Learn how to transition from performative sex to authentic intimacy, express love through your unique love language, and embrace Cock Worship as a sacred practice. Omri also shares the importance of understanding your desires and communicating them openly with partners for more fulfilling connections.ABOUT OMRIOmri is a certified massage therapist with over seven years of experience in the healing arts, blending deep tissue, trigger point therapy, energy work, and relaxing strokes to create a transformative experience. Trained at Hawaii Massage School in Swedish, Deep Tissue, Thai Massage, and Lomi Lomi, Omri combines physical, energetic, and emotional healing techniques, drawing on his expertise as a yoga instructor, reiki master, and EFT practitioner.MMX NYC: https://www.mmxnyc.com/MMX Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mmx_nyc/Omri's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oms_o_o/CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg