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CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT
Boundary Violations During Crisis and Parents Who Refuse Therapy
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Whitney answers two listener questions about harm that happened during a crisis and harm that accumulated over years. One listener is navigating repeated boundary violations from in-laws during her husband's medical emergency while postpartum—and her husband doesn't remember any of it. The other was cut off by parents who refused therapy, yet they tell everyone she initiated no contact.
Whitney Goodman is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and the founder of Calling Home, a membership community that helps people navigate complex family dynamics and break harmful cycles.
Have a question for Whitney? Send a voice memo or email to whitney@callinghome.co
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Order Whitney’s book, Toxic Positivity
This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice.
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