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405 - Velvet & Rocky Horror Pendulum

Step into the world of decadence and drama on this week’s episode of By the Bi, as Angela, Bradford, and their special guest, The Gentleman, recount the thrills of the recent Velvet kink party and the Rocky Horror Pendulum Party. Dive into the seductive details of these extravagant events, where costumes, role-play, and the spirit of adventure create a playground for the senses.


From the lush allure of Velvet to the wild, time-warping fun of the Rocky Horror-themed night, we explore the highlights, the unexpected moments, and the sensational experiences that only such unique gatherings can offer. The Gentleman adds his own spicy anecdotes and insights, making this discussion a must-listen for anyone fascinated by the playful and profound aspects of kink and community.


Join us for an episode filled with laughter, revelations, and a few saucy secrets. Don’t forget to subscribe to By the Bi for more episodes that delve into the vibrant, sometimes hidden world of alternative lifestyles and celebrations.


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