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Busy to Balance: Finding Happiness in a Fast Paced World

Ep. 28

Episode 28 brings you the wisdom of certified mindset and well-being coach Ange. Ange introduces us to five key steps to go from busy to balanced in this busy culture we find ourselves living in. A culture that is contributing to our unhappiness and conditions such as burnout. Our discussion on this topic flows from our very own personal journeys of imbalance to balance, those of the clients we work with and these key steps that Ange provides in this episode to help us walk from busy to balanced. Tune in to discover how you can (in Ange's words) live a FULL (not BUSY) life that is balanced and joyful.


Guest: Ange Fragiacomo, Mindset and Wellbeing Coach, Founder of Conscious Living Hub and Co-Author of Goodbye Busy, Hello Happy: The Magic of Breaking up with Busy and Finding More Time for Joy.


Conscious Living Hub Website: https://consciouslivinghub.com.au/

Find Out More About Her: https://consciouslivinghub.com.au/about-me/

Book: https://consciouslivinghub.com.au/product/goodbye-busy-hello-happy/

Contact: https://consciouslivinghub.com.au/contact/


Host: Shannon Swales is passionate about supporting others with the mental health knowledge & skills to thrive in this life, to move from chronically stressed, burnt-out states to one of wellness. A state she knows all too well after burning out Feb 21, costing her the ability to work & forcing her to move from caring for others to caring for herself. A move that has helped her to the place of wellness today, with the ability to move back to her psychology career, caring for others in a more balanced way.


Business Website: www.burnoutpsychologysupport.com

Book: Nothing Left to Give: A Psychologist's Path Back From Burnout

Psychology Services: www.burnoutpsychologysupport.com/psychologyservices

Blog: Lessons From a Burnt Out Psychologist https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/lessons-from-a-burnt-out-psychologist

IG: www.instagram.com/burnoutpsychologysupport

FB: www.facebook.com/burnoutpsychologysupport

LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shannonswales


Stay in Touch: Please like, share, follow, review or leave a comment. I will be forever grateful for your generosity.

Share Your Story/Expertise: If you’d like to share your burnout experience or you are an expert in the field of burnout & would like to share your wisdom, please email me at shannonswales@burnoutpsychologysupport.com.


Disclaimer: The views, opinions, tips, etc., expressed in this podcast by myself or my guests are not a replacement for personalised therapy. As I have done for myself, I encourage those suffering to seek professional help.

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