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2 Big Ideas on Goal Setting During Quarantine

Big Idea Tuesday 


“The real question is: Are you putting your ass where your heart wants to be?” - Steven Pressfield challenges you to put intention into your goals, dreams, ambitions, etc. In a more challenging state than ever, it’s so important to check in on our mental health, focus on self-care, and continue to create goals.

In today’s minisode, Dhru discusses the importance of goal setting during this time of social isolation. He shares two main ideas:


1) The power of time-blocking

2) The “one thing” approach


This information is so important. I hope you tune in and find yourself inspired. (Remember: being inspired and having dreams, ambitions, and passions are empty without action!)


Mentioned in this episode: The War of Art by Steven Pressfield


For more on Dhru Purohit, be sure to follow him on Instagram @dhrupurohit, on Facebook @dhruxpurohit, on Twitter @dhrupurohit, and on YouTube @dhrupurohit. You can also text Dhru at (302) 335-6565. Here is the Instagram post that inspired today’s podcast.

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