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05 Making New Patterns: Kunbi Odubogun on How She Built Herself

Season 1, Ep. 5

This episode marks a meaningful shift in our Brick by Brick journey as we explore the foundation of all building: the self. Join us for an intimate conversation with Kunbi, founder of Legally Set, lawyer, and a dedicated mother of two, as she courageously shares her experience growing up in a polygamous Nigerian family.


Kunbi is well known in the Nigerian American community for being the queen of celebrations. Perfête, which she has since sold, was a platform centered around the art of celebrating. She is also known for sharing her IVF journey at a time when people declined to speak openly about it. While previous episodes focused on building businesses and careers, Kunbi reminds us that the most profound construction project is often the construction of ourselves. With remarkable vulnerability, she reveals how childhood coping mechanisms shaped her adult relationships and the deliberate work required to break generational patterns.


Key Insights:


  • The complex emotional landscape of growing up in a polygamous home
  • How childhood survival strategies become adult limitations
  • The intentional teamwork required to build a healthy marriage
  • Navigating the profound challenges of IVF as both a woman and a couple
  • The delicate balance of honoring cultural heritage while rejecting harmful patterns
  • Creating a family environment that serves as a container for legacy
  • Finding purpose in healing and breaking cycles


For anyone who has ever felt the weight of their upbringing in their current relationships, Kunbi's story offers both validation and hope. Join us for this powerful exploration of personal reconstruction – because building a beautiful life always begins with rebuilding ourselves.


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Kunbi's Website: kunbiesq.com


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