Born on The Rock: Gibraltar Birth Stories

Season 4 of the podcast is complete! 🙌Hear a summary trailer of our wonderful guests, who told their unique birth experiences across episodes 41 - 52.12 local mothers bravely shared their birth stories in their own words, with fascinating topics and perspectives. Deeply emotional, educational, surprising, amusing and inspirational... these stories are told by women living right here in Gibraltar!💜 12 episodes (January - March 2026)💜 Over 15 hours of audio💜 Stories from 1989 - 2025💜 27 babies!Birth is so intimate and life-changing... your experience is unique.Want to share your story? Contact Lucinda: bornontherock@gbc.gi Thank you for listening, and join us for Season 5 starting in May 2026!

KEY TOPICS: 3 births, caesarean, hyperemesis, diastasis recti, doctor, pandemicLocal doctor, author and campaigner Meenal Viz changed UK law during the pandemic… while starting her family! This driven mum-of-three is passionate about positive change, shares her motherhood journey in this end-of-season special.Meenal discovered she was pregnant while working for the NHS with her doctor husband… as the pandemic hit. She was profoundly affected by the death of a fellow pregnant medical worker amid conflicting Covid advice, and campaigned against inadequate protection for healthcare workers. Meenal staged a solo protest outside 10 Downing Street... while 6-and-a-half months pregnant.The couple's first daughter was born by caesarean in 2020, in over-stretched conditions with Covid restrictions. Breastfeeding was initially difficult, and Meenal spent lonely postpartum months working on her legal challenge and coping with - rather than enjoying - motherhood.The couple moved back to Gibraltar in 2023 when Meenal was in the third trimester of her second pregnancy. She juggled more sickness while parenting and writing her book. She had a far more positive CS birth, feeling safe and respected – Meenal speaks highly of the midwives, and began to enjoy motherhood more.A third pregnancy in 2024 brought challenges - hospital admissions for worsening hyperemesis, Covid, plus caring for two young children! Meenal felt this pregnancy passed in a blur, before another positive CS birth experience.We have an interesting chat about her Indian Hindu heritage and relationship with her own mother, as well as the importance of supporting new mothers and speaking up for creating positive change. Thank you Dr Meenal for sharing your inspirational birth stories! (Recorded February 2026).Instagram: https://www.meenalviz.com/Book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Power-Protest-Healthcare-Meenal-Viz/dp/1839978414GibTalks: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MYx3dvu9-CUGBC: https://www.gbc.gi/news/gibraltarian-doctor-shares-story-of-ppe-protest-during-pandemicUK news: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2020/apr/24/doctor-couple-challenge-uk-government-on-ppe-risks-to-bame-staff

KEY TOPICS: 2 births, natural delivery, phenylketonuria (PKU), genetics, pandemicWelcome to an educational episode with mum of two, Stephanie Marzan. She describes parenting a child with PKU - a rare metabolic disorder affecting just 1 in 15,000 babies, where too much protein can lead to irreversible brain damage.Stephanie became pregnant easily and had a good pregnancy in 2017. She was induced and had a long labour, before their daughter arrived safely at almost 42 weeks - however, just days later the couple received a call to say their baby's heel-prick test result showed a serious issue. More blood tests followed over several weeks, with an emergency trip to Evelina Children's Hospital, before they finally received a diagnosis of phenylketonuria (PKU). Stephanie explains the complex steps she faces daily, to keep her daughter on a strict diet of low phenylalanine - an amino acid commonly found in high protein foods and artificial sweetener. Weaning required training by a dietician, and Stephanie became an expert at reading food labels, navigating party bags and restaurants - even carrying scales in her bag to measure food. The pandemic made things harder for the family to source foods, leading to costly bulk shipments. We discuss the impact on family life and work, and how Stephanie successfully lobbied local medical authorities to get a specialist medication made available in Gibraltar 💪And then: another pregnancy! This journey in 2021 was trickier with pain and weekly monitoring through the third trimester, before another induction and natural delivery. The heel-prick test for their second daughter was clear; an experience most new parents take for granted. We discuss how their younger daughter understands PKU dietary restrictions, the difficulty in planning logistics around hobbies, plus the vital role of support from family and friends. It's an honest and powerful story of true parental devotion - thank you Stephanie for bravely sharing your two Gibraltar birth stories (Recorded January 2026).

KEY TOPICS: 2 births, miscarriage, subchorionic hematoma (SCH), bicornuate uterus, symphysis pubis dysfunction (SPD), natural delivery, retained placenta, postpartum hemorrhage (PPH), pandemicWelcome to a bumper episode with Layla Bates! This mum of two tells her eventful motherhood journey, step-by-step and in honest detail. She and her partner had a uncertain start to their first pregnancy, with the baby not visible on the scan partly due to the shape of Layla's uterus, and a large hematoma that caused worrying bleeding into the second trimester.Although their daughter was born safely, Layla hemorrhaged and required surgery for retained placenta. Combined with the pandemic, it was an eventful time as the couple adjusted to family life! We chat about balancing work and childcare after maternity leave.Sadly, the couple had two miscarriages in the following years. Please note there are graphic descriptions that some listeners may find difficult to hear. Layla highlights a meaningful 'sign' before discovering her fourth pregnancy. Deemed high-risk, she was monitored closely with use of progesterone, aspirin and bedrest due to pelvic pain and low-lying placenta. She faced anxious decisions about her birth plan, though happily this labour was a far more ‘textbook’ experience; her daughter arrived quickly and without complications.We discuss the bond between her daughters, Layla’s seemingly changed uterus shape after pregnancies, and excitingly – the couples’ upcoming wedding! Layla hopes her story is encouraging to other women who might have uterine anomalies, bleeding through pregnancy or face miscarriage. Thank you Layla, for sharing your story! (Recorded January 2026).

KEY TOPICS: 2 births, miscarriage, natural delivery, big baby, ovarian ectopic pregnancy (OEP), breast cancer (DCIS)Welcome to our first guest formally recognised on the New Year's Honours list for her trailblazing local charity work! Isobel Ellul was made Member of the Most Excellent Order of the British Empire (MBE) for services to the community - most notably setting up Breast Cancer Support Gibraltar. This is a rollercoaster story of Isobel's journey into parenthood, whilst overcoming several of her own health challenges.Isobel grew up during the closed Frontier times, before becoming pregnant in the mid-1990's. Very sadly she experienced two miscarriages at 9 & 13 weeks, and recalls specific details of that time. Happily a third pregnancy saw the safe natural delivery of her son in 1997. Isobel found that working postpartum (as a former GBC TV presenter!) was good for her mental health.Two years later, a doctor saved Isobel's life by recognising signs of an ectopic pregnancy. With surgery, she expected her fertility to be impacted... but went on to welcome a Millennium baby! Local TV audiences saw her grow bigger across the pregnancy, before her second son was born with a much easier labour. Isobel discovered a cancerous lump in her breast, while the boys were still very young. She speaks candidly about her mastectomy, recovery, bringing her sons to awareness-raising events, and lobbying Government to establish screening processes and support. Serious spinal surgery and a second breast cancer diagnosis followed years later, which she overcame.We chat about being a parent to adults, the importance of self-care and checking your breasts, and her positive mindset approach to life's challenges. Thank you Isobel for sharing your Gibraltar Birth Stories in this fascinating, empowering episode! (Recorded January 2026). For support, please see https://breastcancergib.com

KEY TOPICS: 4 births, natural deliveries, nuchal cord, late miscarriage, birth trauma, functional neurological disorderPlease note there is discussion of loss in this emotional episode of two halves, as we meet brave local mother Vanessa Correa who describes her four birth experiences.Vanessa begins by fondly recalling how she was engaged, married and a mother... all by the age of 20. She and her husband welcomed their first baby after a good pregnancy and long labour, in the summer of 2004. They settled into family life, although Vanessa shares some funny anecdotes of how their son never seemed to sleep!Soon after, the couple discovered they were expecting again. After another straightforward pregnancy and long labour, their second son was born in 2006. We chat about what it's like to raise teens and young adults with differing personalities.At the start of 2013, Vanessa and her husband were devastated by the spontaneous late miscarriage of their third baby, a little girl at 21 weeks. She speaks bravely about trying to come to terms with grief, with no obvious answers... and factors that made the situation worse. Later that same year, the unthinkable happened - another late miscarriage, another little girl, this time at 19 weeks. It's an incredibly difficult listen as Vanessa describes insensitive comments and a lack of counselling, as she and her husband supported each other in their darkest grief - while continuing to parent their young sons.Although very rare, late miscarriages do happen in 2-3% of pregnancies... and it's Vanessa's hope that sharing her story may offer support to others grieving the loss of a child. She spoke so bravely about her parenting journey and the longer-term physical impacts, including her functional neurological disorder potentially linked to the stress of her birth trauma. This episode honours the memory of Vanessa's two daughters (Recorded January 2026).If you've been affected by topics raised in this episode, please find support at:GibSams by free phone 116 123, Whatsapp 56003612 or online: gibsams.gi/BabyStepps (Support Through Early Parenthood & Pregnancy): www.facebook.com/babystepps.gibraltar/Sands: www.sands.org.uk

KEY TOPICS: 2 births, caesarean, nuchal cord, jaundice, ABO incompatibility, haemolytic disease of newborn (HDN), blood transfusion, grandmotherWe’re heading back to the late 80’s today, with Ivana Finlayson and her husband – both nurses at the old St Bernard’s hospital. It’s a dramatic and emotional listen for the second half of our story.Ivana was a young mother with a good pregnancy, and her son was born on his actual due date! She required a caesarean with both of her children – at a time when these were carried out under general anaesthetic. She returned to work two months postpartum, and speaks about a special bond with her own mother.By 1991, Ivana was expecting again. Soon after the birth, her baby’s health deteriorated due to differing blood types between mother and baby (ABO incompatibility now rarely presents complications, thanks to advances in early detection).She describes a traumatic few days as her daughter’s jaundice worsened; she became so poorly that a priest was called. Just two days postpartum, Ivana took a flight to King’s College Hospital, terrified by warnings that her baby might die. She remembers emergency care being excellent, as staff discovered the shocking reason her daughter hadn’t improved in Gibraltar. Back on the Rock, Ivana adjusted to life with a newborn and toddler… while taking her nursing exams. She feels that navigating her daughter’s near-fatal experience made her a more empathetic nurse, and she describes a touching ‘full-circle’ moment towards the end of our chat. It was lovely to hear Ivana’s advice to her younger self, as well what it’s like to be a grandmother. Thank you Ivana for sharing your two Gibraltar Birth Stories (Recorded December 2025).

KEY TOPICS: 2 births, miscarriage, fertility, posterior uterus, transverse lie, induction, natural delivery, advanced maternal age, pandemicWelcome to an uplifting episode of empowerment, positivity and humour! We meet Dulcie Edwards, her husband and their two children, born either side of the pandemic.For years Dulcie never dreamed of becoming a parent - but when the time came to start a family in her early 30's, she describes tricky menstrual cycles and hormonal treatment for fertility issues. After a sad miscarriage, the couple found they were expecting their daughter in 2019.There's some very funny anecdotes through Dulcie's pregnancy journey (especially from her workplace at a school!), before a long labour began. She describes how her baby seemed 'stuck,' due to a transverse position and her posterior uterus. A fast birth followed with a good recovery for both, though Dulcie speaks about processing her emotions in the early postpartum months.After the pandemic, the family found they were expecting a little boy. At full-term Dulcie was induced due to the risk of infection. She describes an intense labour with no pain relief, and her son making his arrival known! We chat about her recovery, the children's bond and personalities, plus her hopes for their futures - especially in a digital world. This was a fun and empowering one to record, and I'm very grateful to Dulcie for sharing her two Gibraltar Birth Stories! (Recorded December 2025).

KEY TOPICS: 3 births, natural delivery, Hashimoto's thyroiditis, breech, elective caesarean, Klipper-Feil syndrome (KFS), large age gapWe meet Nicole Byrne this week: a mother of three boys who really learned to speak up! It's an episode of growth as Nicole overcame challenges and stigma - she describes negative local attitudes to being young, pregnant and unmarried in the 1990's.For all three pregnancies, Nicole experienced nausea, sensitivity to smell and minimal weight gain. Much of her first labour was without pain relief, and her son was born with no complications. Despite him being a 'good' baby, Nicole's fatigue led to a diagnosis of Hashimoto's thyroiditis, requiring lifelong treatment.When pregnant with her second son, Nicole was advised to have a caesarean due to his breech position. In the months after his birth, she felt certain there was something wrong... yet felt dismissed by doctors with no medical answers. Nicole insisted on a referral to a UK hospital - where he was diagnosed with a very rare condition affecting the neck, shoulder and spine (Klipper-Feil Syndrome with Sprengel's deformity). Despite family support it was a difficult time for Nicole - she became involved with the Disability Society and took a career break to care for her young boys.There's humour in our chat as Nicole describes a surprise pregnancy with her new partner, almost a decade later! After a scare in the third trimester, her third son was born very quickly. We have a lovely chat about the boys' relationships, and what it's like to parent adults. This was such an interesting episode about trusting your intuition, learning to advocate, and growing in confidence as a mother. I'm so grateful to Nicole for sharing her Gibraltar Birth Stories! (Recorded November 2025).http://www.gibraltardisabilitysociety.com